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The biggest fraud from Philippine domestic helper nowadays in HKG

Posted by Nickki Leung (41 days ago)
Beware!! this is the latest trend of those Philippine domestic helpers whom will give your family triple headaches and leave you out nowhere.
Four months ago i hired a local Philippine domestic helper whom just finished her second contract here.
I will let you be the judge with her job condition.
Basically she only needs to attend one healthy person (me) and my son (20 yrs old) whom will come back for 3 months summer holidays each yr.
She has a 80 sq.ft own quarter with her own toilet and bathroom.
Since there is no wet market around my place, 3 times a week i would drive her out for food shopping, buy her lunch at the same time.
She's 32 but moved like 60, so slow motion.
I found out she couldn't cook basic chinese food so i was the cook every night. Thought she would learn from me but she jumped every time when the oil got hot in the wok. Now, how could she cook chinese food if she's so scare of the boiling hot oil?
(OMG, Don't we need the probation period!)
Here comes the BIG SHOCK.
One day she' fired ' me.
She gave me one month notice and wanted to break the contract after working for 3 months.
REASON: She was going to work as a nanny in Toronto,Canada.
And she was so honest to tell me nowadays, all philippine domestic helpers are looking for jobs in Canada usually with the help of their friends whom already working there.
First, they must try to sign a contract with the locals so that they can submit all application form, documents to the Consulate of Canada in HKG. It only takes about 2 months or less for processing here and Ottawa will issue a one year travelling visa whilst in Manila it will take at least 8 months to process the paper and only 6 months travelling visa will issue to them. And the fee is much cheaper in HKG.
To work in Canada, they will need two years working experience as dh (they are that eager to come to HKG even for one contract,thats enough for experience), college graduate, must be married with copy of the marriage cert.
Ho,Ho, this is what they will get from Canada:
10 CN dollars per hour, 8 hours per day. No over time
work. 5 days per week. = HKD 16,000 per month.
(Our local U grad should apply for the job, much better pay, right?)
She can enjoy all medical benefits from Canadian government.
And after working there for one year,she is allow to look for another job and most of all she can apply her whole family migrate there and her children can enjoy all education benefits even to university.
Due to the labor law in HKG. We, the employers have to pay her one way ticket from Manila to HKG (most in terms of cash) another one way ticket back to Manila, the one month notice salary, travelling expenses in HKG as well as her hometown.
They got nothing to loose to sign the contract with you while waiting for the visa to be issued.
And we, all employers become the stepping stones for them.
There is no way you can find out their intention before you sign the contract, no protection whatsoever.
The worst scenario is you loose the agency fee, the compensation lumpsum even they are the one to break the contract?? the time to look for another replacement and training them all over from the beginning.
Once i was watching a documentary in Japan. They do hire Philippine and Indonesia maids for the elderly home. They will get the equal pay as local Japanes, but all of the employee must learn the language, 3 months job training course will be responsible by the agency on behalf of the Japanese government.
They MUST pass the examination by the JAPANESE GOVERNMENT before they allow to come to Tokyo / Osaka and after 6 months probation period if the working performance is not satisfy, they will be send back home and cannot apply again.
Why can't Hong Kong Government do something like this to provide a bit high quality oversea domestic helpers for us since they allow so many to come over.
How can we have confidence to take any risk to hire any of them and don't know how soon they are going to Canada?
It's a fraud since this has to be plan ahead a long time.
This can happen to every one of us.
The canadian immi.dept. even announce they do welcome all nanny, domestic helpers to work there. (Ain't they have very high jobless rate with the local people there?)
What kind of policy they are running?!
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Posted by cookie09 (41 days ago)
this is not called fraud but supply and demand for labour. i don't know what's wrong with you but you could have kept her here if you were willing to match the canada salary.
of course you are not, hence you lost her.
Posted by axptguy38 (41 days ago)
How is this fraud? I agree with cookie09. Your helper has the right to quit; same as you have the right to lay her off. I don't see any reason for complaint. When you hire a helper it's like hiring any other employee. There is a risk that she can quit at any time. Treat her well and you decrease that risk, but it will never go away.
I do not agree that all Philippine helpers want to move to Canada. Many prefer to stay in HK or Singapore, which are closer to home and where there is a large Philippine community. Also going to Canada is probably not a bed or roses either.
"Why can't Hong Kong Government do something like this to provide a bit high quality oversea domestic helpers for us since they allow so many to come over."
I don't see the Japanese model as desirable. DH salaries would go through the roof, meaning fewer people could hire help.
Posted by GreenValleys (41 days ago)
Very unwise to call this 'fraud'. So you are unhappy - and rightly so - but it is not fraud.
Posted by MarathonHK (41 days ago)
Never understand all these complaints about DHs..
For 4k a month, what do you expect them to do? If they can get 4 times that salary, why wouldn t they go for it.. As cookie said, you have the choice to keep her if you re willing to match. (Im pretty sure that a bit less than 18k will get her to stay as she s close to home..)
Would you not quit your job if you could get 4 times somewhere else?
Posted by iwilltry (41 days ago)
Everyone has the right to work less earn more!
Posted by bawlucks (41 days ago)
It's crazy to me how people treat domestic helpers like their possessions.
As if they dont want to make as much as they can doing as little work as possible, just like us.
how dare she want more money! Fraud lol beware!!!! :)
Come on! She fired you!?! Was she paying you? how exactly did she fire you?
Posted by tpol (41 days ago)
I too agree with Cookie. If someone offered you less work time and 5 times your pay, would you leave?
I know many people in finance who use jobs as stepping stones. So why not FDH?

Posted by smallfry (41 days ago)
I agree that it is very frustrating when a helper, who you feel is not very good in the first place, resigns in a situation such as this. It happened to me at a very inconvenient time some years ago and i had to make all sorts of expensive alternative arrangements over a period of about 6 months until we employed our current helper.
I know you can't help but feel resentful but, as others have pointed out, the helper is within her rights to maximise her earning opportunites and employment in Canada clearly offers a number of benefits which simply aren't available here.
We are now paying our current helper HKD 11,000 per month. The story behind this is that we told her we were leaving HK and she applied to work in Canada, starting from the leaving date we gave her. Our plans then changed and we asked her whether she would consider staying on with us for another 1 to 2 years. We then negotiated a deal which we are both happy with.
The $11K represents the salary she would have earned in Canada (I saw the contract). We also compensated her for her Canadian agency fees (about $18K). We will pay this salary for one year. If we have not left HK at that time, her salary will revert to $6000 per month. Long service and/or severance pay will be calculated on the contract rate of $4500 per month. Our helper would still be eligible to apply to work in Canada in 1 to 2 years' time.
We are fortunate in being able to afford this option and I appreciate that other employers would either not be able to afford it or would not consider it good value for money. All households are different and we could not afford this as a long term solution. However it works for us in our particular circumstances.
Fundamentally, it depends on the relationship - i would not have offered this deal to the first helper i mentioned. Although it was troublesome at the time, her leaving was actually a good thing, given her performance. You might find the same thing!


Posted by miao miao (41 days ago)
It seems what made the OP most frustrated was the fact that her helper had signed the contract with her only for the purpose of processing her Canadian visa in HK, with no intent, from the very beginning, to form a genuine employment relationship with her.
Like others have said, though, I would not call it a fraud. I would probably consider it an unethical or unfair behavior on the job market. It's one thing to start a job with good faith, but later feel unhappy with it or find a better offer and quit (or bargain for a better deal with the current employer). It's even fine, I think, to settle for a job you don't like very much but has to do for financial or whatever reasons, with the intent to keep looking for other opportunities (we all have to do that from time to time). But in my opinion the line is crossed when you procure a job that you have no intent to do at all (and be slack at it), just in order to facilitate another plan you are carrying out. That I would consider some sort of bad faith, unless you have told the employer about your intent from the beginning. And it's one thing to have to offer better package to retain an employee who has got a deal elsewhere in the normal course; that's a normal risk all employers have to be prepared for. But it's another if you have to buy over someone who never intended to work for you but only used you as a stepping stone; that's not a reasonable risk an employer would expect when he spends all the resources to hire an employee to do a job he needs done.
It's similar to purchasing an expensive camera for use on a trip, with the intent to return it immediately afterwards, or buying a set of fancy suit for an interview planning to return it right after you are done. Not possible here in HK but perfectly doable in countries like the US. Sure you are within your customer's rights to do those kinds of things, but I would think it an abuse of your rights and dishonest. Fine if you buy a TV set and feel not like it even after a year and return it, but if you plan it before you make the purchase . . .
As Axptguy38 said, desiring to go to Canada is probably not as common as the OP thought (in her frustration), and even less common is this kind of behavior. If this type of practice really becomes widespread, some reaction can probably be expected from the employers' side. Just like some stores in the US now do not allow you to return clothes unless the tag is still on.


Posted by Susie1 (41 days ago)
To Nikki,
I think from the description you gave of this helper anyway, it is a lucky break for you that she is going, she doesn't sound that good, lazy!
I would contact immigration and find out what you have to pay when she breaks the contract, because she has only been employed a short time by you and has obviously gone through the application process for Canada in the very early time she has been with you.
I think you might even be able to get rid of her without her working notice, into a boarding house or something,why should she have the pleasure of the comfort of your home while she waits to fly off elsewhere, I am not sure whether you will have to pay her air fare to Phils, but if you do it will only be one way, and it will make it more inconveinient for her to travel to Canada fron PHils.
Also make sure she has signed a letter, stating that it is her who left job, with a witness present, so that she can't start making accusations against you, because some are very crafty and dishonest This letter should be given to Immigration Deptwithin a week of her resignation. There are plenty more honest Dh's out there,and for your DH"s information , it doesn't always work out for them in Canada, but let her go and find out! good riddance I'd say

Posted by homely (41 days ago)
Actually this is not a new trend as it happened to my daughter about 6 years ago. The helper had the intention from the very start and of course she withheld the truth and then told and resigned from her job when she got her permit to go to Canada after working about 3 months or so. She felt guilty as my daughter and son-in-law treated her well but her ideal job was definitely based in Canada as after a certain period working there, she can process her whole family to start a new life in Canada which is a great future for them. She left in good terms and wrote & called my daughter & son-in-law from time to time in the beginning and eventually faded out as expected.
Posted by cookie09 (41 days ago)
miao miao
"I would not call it a fraud. I would probably consider it an unethical or unfair behavior on the job market. It's one thing to start a job with good faith, but later feel unhappy with it or find a better offer and quit (or bargain for a better deal with the current employer). (...) But in my opinion the line is crossed when you procure a job that you have no intent to do at all (and be slack at it), just in order to facilitate another plan you are carrying out."
This very common behavior in the HK job market for low level/low paid employees. Employers deserve what they are willing to put in - whether that's a university graduate or a DH
Posted by Susie1 (41 days ago)
Mabe it would be a good idea, if processing helpers to go to Canada could only be done diretcly from the Philipines, they are making a mockery using HK Immigration to get a job here and then go elsewhere. Maybe that is one of the reasons HK imm. are thinking of training more local helpers, to stop these little scams by FDH's.
Posted by beerboy (41 days ago)
maybe hk should get it stuff together and not allow this !
trust me hk doesn't want mainland helpers, they wouldn't be able to cheat them like they do with the Philippinos..
Posted by IslandHopper (41 days ago)
"Ho,Ho,Ho, this is what they will get from Canada:
10 CN dollars per hour, 8 hours per day. No over time
work. 5 days per week. = HKD 16,000 per month.
(Our local U grad should apply for the job, much better pay, right?)"
Oh yes, the U grad should go for it if it's such a great deal.
Posted by beerboy (41 days ago)
in the usa some even get a car !
Posted by homely (41 days ago)
beerboy, nobody is cheating anybody, it's a give & take, supply & demand situation. Please don't blemish the whole scenario.
I like my Filipino helper a lot. She is in her 5th year working for us (my husband & I - no children or pet) and we are paying her $4,000 per month but I will have no hesitation if things go out of hand to change to Mainland helpers if government allows the issue. We used to have 'amahs' way before the FDH came into HK.
Posted by punter (41 days ago)
What does Hong Kong government got to do with Canadian consulate business?
Should other workers even professionals like engineers, programmers, accountants, bankers, etc. not be allowed to apply for jobs in other countries too?
imho, this is no scam/fraud.
Posted by IslandHopper (41 days ago)
"Should other workers even professionals like engineers, programmers, accountants, bankers, etc. not be allowed to apply for jobs in other countries too?"
some people tend to think that FDHs shouldn't have free will and choices over their own lives. Some may even think that FDHs belong to them -like property - because they have paid "top dollar" aka a few thousand HKD for their flight tickets to get them here...

Posted by Nickki Leung (41 days ago)
Dear cookie09 / axptguy
I would be too happy to pay her/any DH with HGD 20,000 provided she:
does not need to take 2 and half hours EACH TIME to clean the windows
does not need to take another 2 hours to clean 3 toilets and bathroom, one of it was hers.
does not cook her own meal and consume it while i'd pass 3 times to go in the kitchen without asking whether i care for lunch.
When mistake is repeatedly pop up, the usual feedback (I am sure it happen to all of you) is "i am sorry, mum, i forgot" dear, you work for me and gets pay by me, not GOD!
ours is very simple family, not elderly, sick person/ babies /care child. she was working ono , working hrs is 8:30 to 8 cos dinner always finish at 7. Between noon to 5:30, either she sneaked back to her room to nap/talk on the cell, but please at least be alert, do not ignore answering the door when the door bell rings like fire alarm.
When started, she got a whole set of new bedsheets, blanket. Each week, i let her choose whatever fruits she liked best from the supermarket. 3 times a week, she would enjoyed the dimsum lunch together before going to wet market. I was the one to hold her tight when she broke down cos the infidelity from her husband.
I am not asking for gourmet cooking, but at least do not overcook the veggie and the meat that tasted like shoe-sole. She worked here two contracts already. I was the one to cook meals for the maid for 78 days and she should share part of her salary with me..
Now, dear cookie09/ axptguy, do you suggust i should negotiate with her and ask her to stay back? Do you think i treat her badly? Will you pay that much canadian amount to her with all the benefits?
May be i used the wrong word 'fraud', but the point is you don't get the offer from oversea overnight and it invlove a long procedure to process documents. I was stupid enough when she requested to have weekdays off during the swine-flu period, i thought she was so considerate, but the fact is Consulate of Canada only operates Monday to Thursday, from 8 to 10 . After she got her visa, she came to thank me to let her had days off on Tuesday so she could go for the interview.
Yes, it's a free world. She could break her contract any time with nothing to loose.
(I had paid her total 5k plus a Cathy Pacific one way ticket back to Manila which she didn't. She flown to Toronto from HKG )
If you got the offer, please go back to Philppine, your hometown to apply your visa, don't sign any new contract here and break it later just for your own selfish purpose. Then we got nothing to say, This is absolutely unethical, without any intergraty.
Why should we, the employer has to pay the compensation to them even they are the one to break the contract. This law is the encouragement for them to do whatever they need to do.

Posted by IslandHopper (41 days ago)
" would be too happy to pay her/any DH with HGD 20,000 provided she:"
I would suggest all the local U-grads to look at this great opportunity.
Posted by maxis (41 days ago)
ha ha! good luck to her!
earn more, work less.
It seems local HK people are predominently those who tend to think of DH as chattel.
Note, plane loads of HK people stayed in Canada in 90's, and guess what! it wasn't CA$10/hour they got - they passports, their kids got the coveted "overseas education" and all the benefits generous countries like Canada offer !
HK people exploited Canada for their own benefit, so why shouldn't a Filipino DH get a bit of the good oil eh?
It turns one's stomach to hear the self-righteousness of people.
QUESTION:
who on this earth would stick around cleaning someone's bathroom in a cramped HK apartment and bartering in a stinking wet market, when you could go to a country like Canada where DH can get RESIDENCY and have THE SAME RIGHTS AS OTHER EXPATS,and earn much more and work much less and have a better standard of living?
it's hardly fraudulent to increase one's standard of living by migrating for a better job.

Posted by miao miao (41 days ago)
most of the above posters seemed to have missed the point a bit. as the OP's pointed out, the problem does not lie in her helper's desire to have a better job/life, but rather the fact that she got her Canadian job offer first (so knew that she'd go to Canada) but then signed her contract with the OP for the purpose of staying in HK to process her Canadian visa. as I said earlier, I would consider that unethical/dishonest behavior on the part of a job seeker and unfair to an employer who spent all the resource to hire the employee in good faith. Of course part of the reason people missed this point seemed to be the OP's sarcastic comments about the Canadian working condition in her first post, which I think was counterproductive to her presentation of her case.
To cookie09:
"This very common behavior in the HK job market for low level/low paid employees. Employers deserve what they are willing to put in - whether that's a university graduate or a DH"
maybe so, maybe not, nobody has the statistics. but in any case I would still consider that an unethical practice on the part of the employee (whoever he/she is). whether or not that practice should or should not be blamed considering the low level nature of the job is another question. it's like most theft is commited by poor people but we all know stealing is morally wrong and some may think it's acceptable in special cases while others may disagree.

Posted by IslandHopper (41 days ago)
miao miao: It's one month's notice from both sides and it's as unfair/fair enethical/ethical for both.
Not different from other types of employment.
Posted by tpol (41 days ago)
Miao Miao, it happens in finance, IT and most other industries.
In Banking in China, it is very common.
Alot of friends and colleagues are also biding their time now in jobs that they have just taken and when the finance market picks up again, they are already determined to leave.
No difference in my book. It is the onus of the Employer to keep their staff.

Posted by miao miao (41 days ago)
IH and tpol,
I agree it's no difference whether this practice happened in the DH industry or any other industry. What I disagree, though, is that to me, this practice IS unethical no matter who's the employee that's engaged in it. In my opinion, intent matters and there is something called "good faith". We seemed to differ as to what constitutes a breach of good faith. I agree this is a fine line to draw. Just to repeat what's said my earlier post:
It's one thing to start a job with good faith, but later feel unhappy with it or find a better offer and quit (or bargain for a better deal with the current employer). It's even fine, I think, to settle for a job you don't like very much but has to do for financial or whatever reasons, with the intent to keep looking for other opportunities (we all have to do that from time to time). (and this is what tpol mentioned his friends/colleagues are doing) But in my opinion the line is crossed when you procure a job that you have no intent to do at all (and be slack at it), just in order to facilitate another plan you are carrying out.
Again think about the analogy of a fake purchase. In the US virtually every customer has the right to return any product, but it's (to me) unethical if you pretend to make a purchase just in order to make a free use of something you are not willing to buy.
And as to "It is the onus of the Employer to keep their staff." Agreed, too. But this is not a case of keeping a staff. When the employee starts a job without even the slightest intent to actually do it as a job, it's a different game that the parties are playing from the performance -> incentive -> even better performance mechanism that an employer would reasonably expect to work in place. Same as it's the onus of the merchant to make the customer happy about its product. However, if the customer simply wants to free ride without paying even a reasonable price, the merchant cannot possibly make the product good enough so that the customer does not return the product.
Guess a lot of you still don't agree, but just what I thought.

Posted by Nickki Leung (41 days ago)
IslandHopper: Miao Miao is right. Everybody got sidetrack. I respect every one do have the right to pursue their dream, their better future. Its the way how you had it done.
Can any one tell me how much percentage the dh will pay from their pocket in lieu of one month notice? where else the employer usually will rather pay them to leave at once. It's not a two way street in this case. And how many of them will keep up with their performance during that last month with you? My house almost got burn down if i didn't turn off the fire in time just because she was so excited talking with her friends on the cell while boiling hot water for her lemon/honey tea. Her mind was not focus on her present job anymore, Ask yourself, will you give your pdh a one month notice and still keep her at home under this kind of situation?
Posted by smallfry (41 days ago)
I agree with you, Miao Miao, it is unethical. and i empathise with the OP as it is very disheartening to find that you have been trying hard to make an impossible situation work - you do feel bitter and cheated.
However, if the DH wanted to get to Canada, she had very little choice other than to pretend that she wanted the job with the OP.
My helper (the one who did not go to Canada) said that the agency had told her several times NOT to return to the Philippines before leaving for Canada as there would then be a long delay in processing her papers by Canadian immigration. She had to leave for Canada from HK.
Given this, what else this helper do to get to Canada other than pretend she wanted the OP's job? Maybe she could have worked harder at it but, if the OP is upset at the deceit, it seems to have been necessary to achieve the aim. Presumably, the OP would not have hired her if she'd been honest about her intentions.
Posted by IslandHopper (41 days ago)
"where else the employer usually will rather pay them to leave at once. "
In lots of businesses where the employer does not want the exiting employee to use company resources to preparation for the next job. This happenes especially often in sales related jobs.

Posted by miao miao (40 days ago)
that's a fair observation smallfry, and nothing in conflict with what i said before. admit it's unethical but think whether it can be forgiven considering the situation. everybody in their life would face some situation where there is tempting cause to do something not quite right. it's a test of one's moral standard and people fail all the time which may or may not be forgivable, and i will not make that judgment in this helper's case.
this discussion did remind me of another thread a long time ago where people were talking about an employer's options re work coverage when their helper gets pregnant/is on maternity leave. someone suggested hiring another FDH and terminate her when the pregnant one comes back. my response was that it's either impracticable or unfair. it'll be impracticable if you tell the new FDH upfront that you'll only need her for a few month and has to terminate her once the pregnant one comes back; is any (reasonably good) FDH out there that would want this job? it'll be unfair if you don't tell the new FDH about your plan but simply hire her under a two-year contract and terminate her once the pregnant one comes back. in that case is it fair to the new FDH just because you give one month's notice or pay in lieu? i don't think so and hopefully most would agree. the new FDH enters into a two-year contract with you, expecting that she will not be terminated except for the normal reasons, i.e., poor performance, your financial inability; your relocation, or your other change of situation which was UNKNOWN at the time of signing the contract. (so my conclusion in that case being that the only fair and feasible option is to get a legal part-time).
isn't that same analysis applicable here? or do people think differently depending on whether it's the employer or the helper who breaches the contract? or would you say it's nothing unfair for the new FDH to be suddenly terminated and it's her onus to out-perform the old one so that you keep her instead?

Posted by Nickki Leung (40 days ago)
Why should any one of the employer gets their daily life all of a sudden screw up just
because it's much faster, cheaper for the phd to get the visa done in Hong Kong. We are not the one to apply migration to Canada with the helper to come along. It's their own business to pursue a better life there, be it longer or shorter in Philippine, get things done in the proper way, please. Do not sign a new contract just because then you can stay on here and no need to go back to have your visa done in your homeland.
''the employer does mot want the exiting employee to use company resources to
preparation for the next job."?????
Like what in this industry? Take away rice, cooking oil or corn flour? It's the working attitude, the performance, the focus in job that we concern /worry about most.

Posted by meiji (40 days ago)
well, Nickki, welcome to the trend. It's not new. That's why if you don't want your helper to USE you as a middle step to Canada, find out her intentions by testing her during interview, and I avoid hiring college grad.
Indonesians are also the other option.
There are many Filipina helpers who choose NOT to go to Canada. My helper's sister keeps asking her to go, her sister has already got residency, and her kids are now going, she worked 4 years as a caregiver, she used to be a helper in HK over 10 years. Now she owns a car, and she is bringing her kids to college in Canada. How they manage to pay for all this I have no idea, I recall when I lived in Canada, what made us leave was the taxes! No matter how much we made, after taxes, it was alway the same as the lazy neighbour next to us.... (almost!".It's like a communist country, you make lots, they tax you to be the same as the ones who aren't making as much.
My helper chose to stay in HK to work with us because I give her a 3 week vacation each year to visit her kids back home. It would be too hard for her to call home, or visit from Canada.
She also says she hates the cold weather.
So, good luck, just hire a non-college grad with years of experience working in HK, you will be fine!

Posted by Nickki Leung (40 days ago)
Thank you Meiji for your suggestion. i don't think at this moment i will have the nerve to think of hiring another one. I am so scare to get trap in the similar case again. In fact, i contacted several large agencies here, and the agents reflected to me it's a very common trend and a big headache for them also.
Posted by IslandHopper (40 days ago)
Nickki Leung:
"''the employer does mot want the exiting employee to use company resources to
preparation for the next job."?????
Like what in this industry? Take away rice, cooking oil or corn flour? It's the working attitude, the performance, the focus in job that we concern /worry about most."
You already seem to forget your own questions in this very same thread which was
"where else the employer usually will rather pay them to leave at once "
Or was that a question? If not, what did you actually mean by that?
Posted by iwilltry (40 days ago)
Nickki,
I sympathize with you but I think every human struggle for a better life and sometimes you are forced to become abit unethical for your own benefit.
Think about the fact that they earned as much as you do, there was no need for them to clean someone else's bathrooms, right? If you want a better life, so does everyone.
If whatever you've spent on hiring her is peanuts for you, why don't you just consider yourself doing a 'moral' good to make someone's life better...now that your DH has a chance to move to Canada for good.
Moreover, from your post, your question is no longer relavent in my eyes because you are complaining about your DH's behaviour so much in this forum that have she not opted to leave for Canada, you would have fired her anyways.
Posted by tpol (40 days ago)
She mentions:
"Basically she only needs to attend one healthy person (me) and my son (20 yrs old) whom will come back for 3 months summer holidays each yr."
So for 9 months of the year, it is 1 person
Posted by spurtio (40 days ago)
Nickki, why did you pay her HKD 5,000? If she resigns and breaks contract YOU don't have to give her any pay in lieu. She has to give you one month's notice and work the month's notice, or else if she leaves immediately she has to pay you one month's salary in lieu of notice.
Posted by punter (40 days ago)
The helper did give the one month notice.
This case is just another one of the many that employers will have regarding helpers. Some issues are asinine to some but are big deals (or made into big deals) by some. In the end, each employer has to handle situations like this their own way.
However, posts like this also gives us a view on how some employers treat/view/see their helpers.

Posted by Nickki Leung (40 days ago)
iwilltry
Whether i will fire her is none of your business. If i am that mean i wouldn't paid her that much and bought the most expensive Cathy's ticket (more luggage allowance, no compensation to changing departure date) for her to go home.
She was happy to work here and do not see me as an employer, we could talk to each other esp. how to bring up our kid etc. When she was homesick we would hug together until she stopped crying.
I am not complaining about her, i just want to state out what kind of family she was
working for, it's not like she had to clean the toilet in a cramped hk apt.( her own room is 80 sq ft. big ) or i torture her. She just started here for 3 months, If i didn't want to spend time to get to know her or to teach her, i would have fired her without a min. second thought.
The morning she left, her luggages were in the living room and she was waiting
for me to get up and say goodbye. She was crying when we hugged the last time and we promised we will keep in touch. I wished her all well in Canada.
Why do you guys concentrate on her performance most? It was only 3 months she came to my house, even somthing was not right with her work, we still have another 21 months to work things out should she not break the contract.
The main theme of this post is not complaining my helper.
Each person has the freedom and rights to pursue their better life, but do it in a proper way please. To sign a contract with the only purpose to prolong your stay in here in order to get the visa,then break the contract and go to work in Canada.
I am lucky it's just me, one person. But a lot of family will have to find some other way to handle this kind of unexpected situation. It's unethical, and where is the integraty ?

Posted by beerboy (40 days ago)
nikki people leave jobs every day get over it move on !
Posted by dansande (40 days ago)
Ms. Leung you are just upset that a Filipina had the unmitigated temerity to behave like a true capitalist and look out for herself despite how it affected you. You had a contract with her. A contract is a business relationship, not a personal one. She made a good business decision. If you have a problem with how capitalism works maybe you don't belong in Hong Kong.

Posted by IslandHopper (39 days ago)
"To sign a contract with the only purpose to prolong your stay in here in order to get the visa,then break the contract and go to work in Canada. "
Oh no, she did not break the contract - she only gave a one month notice according to the terms of the contract
"You don't want to work, you want to live like a king
But the big, bad world doesn't owe you a thing
Get over it
Get over it
If you don't want to play, then you might as well split
Get over it, Get over it
It's like going to confession every time I hear you speak
You're makin' the most of your losin' streak
Some call it sick, but I call it weak
You drag it around like a ball and chain
You wallow in the guilt; you wallow in the pain
You wave it like a flag, you wear it like a crown
Got your mind in the gutter, bringin' everybody down
Complain about the present and blame it on the past
I'd like to find your inner child and kick its little a**
Get over it
Get over it
All this bitchin' and moanin' and pitchin' a fit
Get over it, get over it "

Posted by iwilltry (39 days ago)
Miss Nickki,
Yes this is none of my business and please, why would I bother? I am not paying her right so what's the relevance of you to say this to me....get some brains please.
None of us here has any business to do with either you, your so called fraudster helper or your problem. Everyone here was just trying to give their own opinions so be grateful.
You've got double standards, on one hand you talk about the fraud and on the second you're talking about how bad your helper did her job.
And also you call her a fraudster and later you're trying to show how nice you were to hug her when she cried and that she waited for you to say goodbye etc etc....have some standards.
By the way, i will be shocked if you tell me you have never taken advantages of others for your own benefit....you'll be a real angel.

Posted by Nickki Leung (38 days ago)
iwilltry:
I do not called myself an angle or any name (unlike some of you people).
Yes, i have NEVER plotted to take advantages of others for my own benefits. Not once. period.
That is not the way i brought up.
By writing 'TAKEN ADVANTAGES OF OTHERS FOR YOUR BENEFIT..Ain't it obvious you
confirmed and admitted that for your own benefits , there is nothing wrong to use people, to take advantage so long you can reach your goal like in this case.
Please refer to your post--' have she not opt to leave for Canada, you would have to fired her anyways'. Of course, it's none of your business whether i would fire her. Here all i stated out were the facts of her working condition, working attitude, and what kind of family she was engaged with. Did i reflect any judgement, any criticism, regarding this? What makes you have the assumption that I would have fire her ANYWAYS.
I do not have double standard. She was new to my house, she worked slow, but i said it already given time, working attitude can be corrected, working capability can be improved should she not break the contract. In private, the friendship between us is another story. I just do not agree the way she had done in terms of getting the Canadian visa, but she is still a warm heart lady. Why is it a double standard ? Can an employer and her helper not be friends ?
I did not called her fraudster. I wrote of this trend is a fraud (like i said may be i use the wrong english word). There isn't any particular name mentioned.
When a pdh's old contract is up, under normal situation, she must go back to Philippine within 14 days if she cannot get any new employer to sign a new contract or she did not get renewal of the old contract. There is no way she can continue to stay behind .
Somehow the dh actually already got job offer from Canada, it's just the paper work & interview waiting to be done. Since she is free without any contract, why don't just go back to her homeland to get the visa done there. They have the consulate of Canada in Philippine, i am sure they do handle visa applications and should be the same standard procedure to obtain one.
So why? what's the point or purpose to sign a new contract with the local employer, bind yourself down with another 2 yrs here while actually you are secretly apply the visa and once it's been issued, you just go up to your employer and announce the contract is invalid effective from --- cos you want to break it.
Plz focus to the case, the way it's been done. It shows no respect to your signature on the contract, unethical, unprofessional.
islandhopper
The question i was asking is how much percentage the dh will take out from their pocket in lieu of one month notice? I would say the usual situation is they will work that month off but seldom a dh will pay the $3850 in cash to the employer in order to compensate for the one month notice. At least not with my case.
where else the employer usually will pay them to leave at once. is a statement stating out IN THIS INDUSTRY, be it the employer wants to break the contract for certain reason or they decided to fire the helper, usually the employer would rather pay them one more month salary to see them go immediately.
Most HKG employers (esp. local chinese ) of the pdh all knows the reason behind why to pay the extra and let them go at once. 99.9% are doing it.
A contract is a contract. Whoever wants to terminate it in between the designated time frame is still breaking up that deal. It doesn't matter one month notice or ten month notice, otherwise what do you consider after she gave the one month notice to do what?
And for your information, i do not drag around or either do i dwell on it. We still got choices like Indonesia, Thailand, Sri Lanker or Mainland China and some good faith pdh. The reason i spent time to post the case here is to let people know there is this trend among pdh and the tricky way how to have it done in Hong Kong instead of back in their homeland. Nothing personal like what you wrote.
dansande
Why should i be upset about philippina being a capitalist? Their ex- president already demonstrated as one of the greatest. My maid's leaves didn't make my life sour. Yes, she made a good 'business' decision, but it's before she signed the contract with me. That's why afterwards she thank me for letting her have weekday off so she could go to the consulate, she thank me for letting her stay in my place until her flt.'s ready to fly to Toronto.
Talking about capitalism, do not challenge blindly with someone you don't know their
profession. In a capitalistic city like HKG (or anywhere in the world, dirty tricks won't let you last long. It doesn't really necessary to take someone's advantage / using someone as a stepping stone to make the utmost benefits for your own self.


Posted by IslandHopper (38 days ago)
"A contract is a contract. Whoever wants to terminate it in between the designated time frame is still breaking up that deal. "
Terms and conditions are one month's notice, so it's not breaking up the deal. Why should DH "compensate" to employer - it's their duty to continue to work one month after giving the notice - if they themselves decide leave immediately after giving the notice, you don't have to pay that month to them. Isn't that simple?
"be it the employer wants to break the contract for certain reason or they decided to fire the helper, usually the employer would rather pay them one more month salary to see them go immediately.'
Life is full of choices...
"We still got choices like Indonesia, Thailand, Sri Lanker or Mainland China and some good faith pdh. "
You actually don't have the Mainland China option yet.
"Most HKG employers (esp. local chinese ) of the pdh all knows the reason behind why to pay the extra and let them go at once. 99.9% are doing it. "
So 99.9 % are paying EXTRA.? I have always thought that certain percentage of employers don't even pay the minimum required by the law and standard contract, but thanks for correcting me with this statistical fact.
"Why should i be upset about philippina being a capitalist? Their ex- president already demonstrated as one of the greatest. "
This is already a weird comment and I can't see what is the relevance to this discussion.
"In a capitalistic city like HKG (or anywhere in the world, dirty tricks won't let you last long. It doesn't really necessary to take someone's advantage / using someone as a stepping stone to make the utmost benefits for your own self."
One thing to say about this: LOL!. You were just referring to one president (as capitalist) who used dirty tricks for decades and now your say that you don't last long in a capitalist society with dirty tricks. I could name a few people in HK, too but just think about it yourself and perhaps you recognize those very prominent men, too.

Posted by iwilltry (38 days ago)
Nickki,
I understand your point for being frustrated and feel being used. But honestly speaking, this happens everywhere. People make choices and those choices are not necessarily benefitting others.
As a matter of fact, when we go out to look for a job, we have several interviews, its just which offer comes first, you may take it, but once you get a better offer, you serve the relevant notice and leave.
I mean, its all about opportunities and who won't grab it? You'll be a fool if you see an opportunity knock on your door and you feel its 'unethical' to leave the first one and grab the second one.
Anyways, I would still say it wasnt a big issue to talk about. 1 month notice is sufficient for you to get another person on board and moreover, you are alone, you shouldnt be in any immediate need for a helper...unless you think otherwise.

Posted by Nickki Leung (38 days ago)
Islandhopper
In Hong Kong there is a Government Dpt. named Labor Dept. with 24 hours hotline.
Anyone employer pay less than the standard wages to DH is breaking the law. Why don't the pdh not report to the Authority regarding getting less pay from the employer?
Who is to blame if you don't protect your own wages?
Go and report the case to the Labor Dept. If you don't voice your complain to the authority, it's your choice and plz keep your mouth shut.
We do have Mainland helpers here. They are legally got the ID and as a HKG residents.
Most of them are housewife/ temporary out of job, they may want to earn a bit money to help out the family. They speak the language,they can cook chinese meals etc, except they can't work full time, but still it's far better for some family that speak no english.
why should i be upset about Philippina being a capitalist, their ex-president already
demonstrated as one of the greatest.
This is to answer dansande's post accusing me ' being upset ......and ' if i have a problem with how capitalism works may be i don't belong to Hong Kong.
Of course, i won't be upset or SURPRISE phillippina being a capitalist, cos one of thier ex-president was such a successful capitalist. It's no surprise why not the rest can be a capitalist, why should i be upset about this?
Sorry to tell you the hd can give one month notice to the employer and work that month off. However if the hd decided to leave immediately , it's the same clause that she has to pay the $3580 to the employer. You know why? most pdh always get the 'previous month wages in hand, then quit later. Since she already got the last month payment, why they don't need to pay the one month wages in lieu to the employer as the same term?
iwilltry
You still don't get the point here. No one say it's wrong to look for a better future,
" you will be a fool if you see opportunity knock on you door and you feel its unethical to leave the first one an grab the second one."
OMG, how many times do i have to explain the problem is not on grabbing chances, seek for the better future.
The problem is the pdh has the old contract finished, before she sign the new contract with another local employer, she actually ALREADY got the job offer from
Canada, and she decided she will go for it. However, instead of processing all documents in Philippine, her origin homeland where the Consulate of Canada will do the same 'job', but may be longer , even her mind is 100% set for Canada, she still sign a new contract here ,and no need to go back Philippine within 14 days. The main thing on her mind is concentrate how to submit the paper work, how to handle the interview by the consulate to get the travelling one year visa.(6 months visa only if she did it in Philippine) visa.
(this information was given by my ex- helper after everything is done.)
It's not the second contract in HKG that she wants, it's the only way she can stay behind and have the visa done here.
Plz explain, in such a way, is it fair or ethical to the new employer?
BY the way, i am not frustrated. But i did sat down with her to talk about breaking the contract under this kind of situation. Then she told me she did not want to have it done in Philippine. It takes too long (6 to 8 months), And the ticket to fly to Toronto is expensive in Philippine. That's why she must find a HKG family here to sign the contract to prolong her stay here to get the visa.
Do you understand what the main theme i wrote this post and why someone will take it as unethical?
Why do you twisted and sidetrack my point here? Why do you always have the assumption of your own and put it into my mouth. What makes you think one month notice is sufficient for me (or any employer) to get another dh. Again, me being one self, whether i SHOULDNT need a helper immediately is not for you to say, and it's none of your business.

Posted by iwilltry (35 days ago)
Nickki,
I am not side-tracking you and I am agreeing with you that its unethical. I wish you good luck with your future search and hope nothing like that happens anymore.

Posted by IslandHopper (35 days ago)
"Islandhopper
In Hong Kong there is a Government Dpt. named Labor Dept. with 24 hours hotline.
Anyone employer pay less than the standard wages to HD is breaking the law. Why don't the pdh not report to the Authority regarding getting less pay from the employer?
Who is to blame if you don't protect your own wages?
Go and report the case to the Labor Dept. If you don't voice your complain to the authority, it's your choice and plz keep your mouth shut"
So who is to blame if someone breaks the law? For most people the answer is very simple but for you , I don't know.
"Again, me being one self, whether i SHOULDNT need a helper immediately is not for you to say, and it's none of your business"
Actually the alleged "fraud" is none of our business either but your very own problem you should be able to cope with.
However, it was you who wanted to share your "problems" in public, so please stop complaining if you get some nice pieces of advice - free of charge.

Posted by iwilltry (35 days ago)
Islandhopper
I agree with you. From what I've read from Nickki, I find her pretty rude actually. She posts her problems in public and she cannot 'accept' people to have contradicting views from hers.
Any helper will have problems digesting that kind of attitude for too long from an employer like her. Sorry for being blunt!

Posted by IslandHopper (35 days ago)
"Why ' those PDH ' not report and voice out to the authority regarding this. WE ALL KNOW that there is money penalty as well as being lock up in jail for those law-breaker. If you don't do that, of course, stop yelling about it.
Who is to blame if you don't protect your right and own wages?
Do you expect your employer will automatically report he/herself to the labor dept?
Be smart!"
I don't think you are the right person to advise others being smart....
And what is that talk about "PDH". I'm talking about FDHs and it's a well known fact that Indonesian helpers are more underpaid than for example Filipinas. Due to the fact that their own government has given too strong powers to agents regarding helpers employment and most of them own lots of money (according to their standards) to agents.
It's difficult to pay it back when underpaid but impossible if out of work.
And now the truth you don't want to hear: lots of HK employers know this fact and use it to their own benefit - perhaps in cooperation with some agents.

Posted by Nickki Leung (35 days ago)
islandhopper
Be smart is relating to the fact be smart to protect your own right and your own wages. Don't twisted it again.
To protect your own right especially it's HKG labor law that no employer should or could pay less than the standard wages to any overseas dh regarding what nationality, and it's against the law.
And most helper own (? is it owe?) money to the agents is two different issue.
Since you have so much information regarding lots of HK employers "use theis fact and use it to their own benefit-perhaps in cooperation with some agents.
Again, be a nice citizen, report to the authority, plz.
*my post is talking about the PDHs getting Canadian visas in HKG by unenthical ways,
why all of the sudden it twisted into talking legal/illegal payment by the employer by YOU???????
I don't think i should waste my time to reply to YOUR post anymore.
Posted by Ed (34 days ago)
There's no needing to conduct a gramer and speling lesson on the fourums... thats' condecending to thows of us 4 who inglish is knot hour ferst lagwage...
Thanks...
Posted by evildeeds (34 days ago)
Let's get one bit of naivety out of the way first. There is a belief that FDH who are not paid the full amount can have everything sorted so easily which is actually not quite the case. An FDH who reports an employer to the Labour Dept pretty much immediately loses their job and has to stay in HK until the case is heard with no salary.
So to those who believe it is so easy please explain why a helper who is maybe $20,000 in debt with agency fees and knows they may have 6 months stuck in HK with no income if they complain, has all options open to them? Simple case is, they don't. If they do then there is pretty only one option open to them to earn money and the majority of these women would never go down that route.
So please try and understand the reality first before making baseless claims that people are well protected. The simple case is they are not.
Posted by Ed (34 days ago)
Fortunately when we re-launch the sites there will be an option to close off the discussions when they degrade into non-constructive mode...
For now, please stay away from the personal insults as I am deleting them...
Posted by cara (34 days ago)
1) the helper did NOT break the contract. she merely exercised her right to give one month notice. this is ALSO the right of the employer. an employee can quit a job for any reason they like. just because this helper chose to go to canada is totally besides the point.
2) this is NOT fraud. it would have been nice, perhaps, if the helper had informed you of her future plans. HOWEVER, it is not mandatory. if she had told you of her plans, you most likely wouldn't have hired her. it is only natural for her to want to get to canada as fast as possible and as cheaply as possible. she can't be expected to stay in hk indefinitely (nor would she be allowed to!). it WOULD have been nice for her to tell you, but it isn't necessary.
3) nikki, if you don't want/expect people to disagree with you, don't post on a public forum. forums are hotbeds of disagreements.
Posted by tpol (34 days ago)
can you add clauses into an agreement with an FDH like you can with Tenancy Agreements?
something to protect against something like this or at least weed out the one of have the same intentions as Nikki's ex-helper.
Posted by GreenValleys (34 days ago)
No you can't. The wording is standard and cannot be changed other than in the areas set aside for the variables (like salary, address etc etc).
Posted by Nickki Leung (33 days ago)
Cara
'Nickki. if you don't want/expect peole to disagree withyou, don't post on a public forum, forums aare hotbeds of disagreements.
I am sorry i don't think i am that irrational. I admitted because of my poor english i used the wrong word 'fraud' in this post. However, when the main theme of my post
is getting more and more sidetrack, i have to write back to them to clarify and try to expresswhat i am trying to tell the incident that happened to me and some of my friends. At the same time to answer their "attack" point by point . It's a nautral reaction when you were being twisted into something that you are not.
I did not wrte any critiism, objection, personal attack, calling names to any like some they did.
Posted by Ed (33 days ago)
Ed's Note...
It's of course ok to disagree with someone - but please don't ridicule or insult them in doing so
And in particular please do not mock someone because their grammar/spelling is not correct - we have many expats (and locals) on here who's first language is not English... keep in mind not all expat hail from the US, UK, Europe, Canada and Australia.... over half of our members are holding Asian passports... So dont expect perfect English... if you are concerned about spelling you can join http://www.freewebs.com/mujer17/GT%20Links/spelling.jpg
Posted by punter (33 days ago)
Nickki Leung just doesn't get it. People view things differently and you can't force people to think and see things the way you do. You may have used the word "fraud" wrongly, but readers/posters in this forum can gauge/guess how you feel/view this case.
So after so much discussion on this point, what should have been the right word then (instead of fraud)?
Posted by Nickki Leung (33 days ago)
Cara
I am sorry i double submitted the same post by clicking the wrong button.
Posted by tpol (33 days ago)
But we must thank Nikki for letting us know that this is going on.
I was at the post office the other day and in front of me was a Philipino lady with an envelope that seemed filled with a stack of documents.
It was addressed to the Canadian Consulate.
Posted by homely (33 days ago)
I agree with tpol that Nikki was just trying to share her unlucky experience with us and letting people who hire helpers know that there are cases like these (my earlier post also stated that this same issue happened to my daughter). Everybody deals differently and Nikki finds it harder to accept which is OK and she was kind enough to take the time to write on this column to warn us or just to air out her feelings. No matter what, even if some of you don't agree with her, at least have the manner of not attacking her so fiercely.
Posted by tpol (33 days ago)
Furthermore, I am guessing but she was probably quite angry when posting it originally.

Posted by Nickki Leung (33 days ago)
Thank you tpol and homely for your understanding. tpol, i wasn't angry a bit when i wrote this thread (or post), my pdh left on the night in Sept. 3, she took the China Airline from HKG via Taipei to Toronto, she was still at my home that morning. Actually she gave me a one month notice on July 23, but i postponed to file to the immi dept. the date cos after August 22, she would have to stay at the boarding home and paid for rent, food,everything, that case i let her stayed with me a few more days (of course with pay). we were still friends when she left.
I just wrote out the fact and the experience, no anger,nothing.
I do feel bad after it posted, people is not giving out advice or opinion but creating other talks or challenaging questions that's irrelavant to my post, e.g. whether the contract is in terms of break contract (ask the immi, and labor dept. see how they determine what's the term of this,), then leads to not getting full paid by the employers, then my poor english etc...
Anyway, thank you to you, homely, ED, for all the support.

Posted by Nickki Leung (32 days ago)
Yes and No. I am hiring a local chinese part-time to come in eveyday except Sunday.
Posted by banner boy (32 days ago)
Very expensive !
Posted by Nickki Leung (32 days ago)
It is expensive. But worth every dime of it.
Posted by girlsoon (32 days ago)
i will finish my 3rd contract with my employer on sept 2010,,,,i am not planning to work in canada but i want an employer who doesnt have any small kids...anyone here who needs a helper by that time?

Posted by sarah jane jj (31 days ago)
I had a helper whome I paid to do a first aid course(she still scalded my boys leg in shower and didnt run cold water for 10 mins)hmm.Anyway after signing 2nd contract and having 3week holiday back in Philippines plus my hubby paid 2 year levy upfront,she came back with a different attitude.We found out that 2 weeks being back here she applied to a Canadian agencey via office here cost her maybe $20,000 plus had to pay own airfare etc.
She started lying,gave her notice Xmas day night,left her letter open on our paper on the stairs saying she was going back home to her daughter.We found out (via our computer she used )applying for Canadian citizenship etc.to have a job has a caregiver, a firstaide certificate is required(ironic).
When we confronted her she cried said she was sorry and that she would stay bhla,bhla,bhla.When push came to shove she left within a month of telling us leaving us in the lurch over Chinese Newyear.She even lied to our other helper her Auntie who got her the job.We treat her well,like family....I would not of held her back I understood she wanted a better life for her and her family,it was just the way she went about it all.
So do be aware Hong Kong is just a stepping stone for some people for the lands of the green and the free,good luck to them Karma will happen and bite them in the bum.

Posted by girlsoon (31 days ago)
@sarah jane im sorry to hear your experience
Posted by sarah jane jj (31 days ago)
You live and learn,take the good with the bad...Karma(still waiting to win lots of money)ha ,ha.With 2 sets of twin boys under 5 you need humour and 2 helpers for the sake of your sanity(which I must have lost a long time ago).
Posted by tpol (31 days ago)
wow both time you managed to get twins.
Are you going to try for a pair of girls?
Posted by sarah jane jj (31 days ago)
Too old and hubby had the snip :) got an older boy and girl,so 6 is enough for anyones body to go through thankyou.:)
Posted by Nickki Leung (29 days ago)
Sarah jane, what a terrible case you had. I am so sorry to hear that. With twins and they are so small,like you said, i would have gone nuts. With your experience and
another thread by good day's, i hope certain readers can be more rational, stop branching out some irrelavant attack. We just want to state out the fact and our experiences to let people know and beware that cases like these can happen to anyone who hire helpers. And i hope you can find some one is responsible, ethical,
and take her job and your family seriously.

Posted by Wiz Bang (29 days ago)
just a thought....
It is a fact that working as in Canada or elsewhere may seem to be lucrative, and finding work first in HK may be a stepping stone to attain that.
in the same manner, mainlanders find it ideal to work in Hong Kong for some reason or another example because they have family here. I would think that they would have "less" desire to migrate to Canada as their filipino or indonesian counterparts would have.
So if mainlanders were allowed to HK to work as domestic helpers, then the chances of domestic help abandoning their posts to pursue better opportunities in other parts of the world within a short period of time is minimal .
Wouldn't employers then find mainlanders a better choice to hire if they knew their helper wasn't using them as a catapult to elsewhere?
Here's my two cents, and i know it is going to open a can of worms
There is nothing wrong with anyone or anybody wanting to improve themselves and or to move on to other better paying jobs and opportunities.
HOWEVER, there is a very very very thin line between that and people finding an opportunity to use someone as a stepping stone
What I see is that the OP's helper wasn't serious about her job, she just used the opportunity to work in Hong KOng so that her application to work in Canada would be processed easier.
Here's the facts from the OP
She finished her 2nd contract
She worked for the OP for 4 months.
She resigned at 4 months
I bet ya that she was already planning to move to Canada before the 3rd contract (the one with the OP). but this meant that she would have to go home after the 2nd contract if she didn't find another employer in HK... thereby jeopardizing her chances of successfully applying to Canada.
Again as I said, there is nothing wrong with having ambition to work for better opportunities elsewhere. I think it was just the execution and how the helper used the 3rd contract to reach that goal that made the OP "mad".
my two cents as i said.

Posted by evildeeds (29 days ago)
And in a territory where a huge proportion of the population wait until they get their 13 month bonus before leaving for other jobs........? Not mentioned.
Or the bankers who use one company to get to another. Not mentioned.
This is a situation that happens everyday here, and let's be honest the leaving after the 13 month bonus one is the most dishonest of the lot.
Posted by maxis (28 days ago)
The "13th month scam" is disgusting and greed at its worst.
It is not the same as the DH trying to get to Canada - it is a massive inconenience to the employer compared with the perpetrator getting a lousy extra month salary.
we dont give the 13 month bonus to stop this behaviour
Posted by Susie1 (28 days ago)
Hi WizBang, Maxix and Evildeeds, You are all absolutely correct, that is what Nicky tried to explain in her original post, and she appears to have been very kind to her helper, even though her helper did not appear to have too much to do!
I would go as far to say her helper had a very cushy life there, so I can well understand why Nicky was so upset, many other people would be furious, and would not be as kind as Nicky has been.
You mention this '13th month scam" for a bonus, this is the first I have heard of that, are employers expected to pay some kind of bonus after 13 months?, could somebody, please explain. Thanks
Posted by homely (28 days ago)
The 13th month is called the double pay paid out by companies every year end near Christmas or the Chinese New Year to the staff after working the whole year with the same company. Some will be paid on pro-rata basis depending on the months worked which I think is fair.
Posted by homely (28 days ago)
In the old days, we paid amahs double pay too but not with the FDH as the monies went to their tickets and their entitled paid-for holidays. My understanding only.
Posted by Susie1 (28 days ago)
Thankyou for explaining that
Posted by Nickki Leung (28 days ago)
Thank you Maxis, Susie1, homely for explaining details with open-mind and common knowledge, not in picking with words.
Posted by axptguy38 (28 days ago)
As mentioned, any bonuses are entirely at the discretion of the employer. Of course, if your helper has done a great job padding the lai see is not a bad thing to do.
Posted by Ricky07 (25 days ago)
Hi Nickki,
i,m 100% agree with you, Its a big fraud from your helper. Ofcourse if you know she is going to resign after 3 months you ll never sing the contract with her. She already have plan to do like this, if she is not Fraud she have to explain to you before sign the contract that i already apply for the canada and later i ll go there, but she never told you like this, coz she dont want to loose this job as well. Now when she got positive response from canada then she fire you... hahaha , how funny this selffish women.Its big lesson for other employer, you peoples must learn the lesson from Nickki,s helper and Beware from phillipino DH. Before sign the contract you must clarify from you helper maybe she ,s the next to Cheat you.
Posted by Susie1 (25 days ago)
Oh Ricky! Do you think any of these girls would clarify the truth before signing a contract, I don't think so, If they want a job they will say eg. they like kids?, like dogs and cats?, and they are honest and hardworking ??? and Yes Sir or Madam to any questions you ask, with a big smile on their faces. It is only when you employ them, you will find out to the contrary. I am not saying they are all like that, but some of them are practiced liars. I would recommend not having a helper if you don't really need one, just get legal part-timers, at least you don't have to have them in your home 24/7.
Posted by IslandHopper (25 days ago)
Ricky07 : "if she is not Fraud she have to explain to you before sign the contract that i already apply for the canada and later i ll go there, "
Doesn't have to, she doesn't have to say a word about her future plans.
Susie1: Did you even think that cleaning your toilet bowl is someone's dream career? Normally job applicants tell all kinds of nice things about themselves and work they aapply for but the hard reality is that for most people work is a necessity they have to get.

Posted by Nickki Leung (25 days ago)
O.K. Ricky07, Susie1.let me tell you how good an actor my ex-helper was and how foolish i believed her. At the interview, she told me that her mother just had an operation and she spent all the savings on it. She was the main bread-maker for the whole family=parents, husband(no job) and 3 kids. About two weeks she came to work in my house, one night after dinner, she cried hystericaly in the kitchen. I asked her what's wrong and she said she had just got a long distance call from husband telling her that her father had blood vomitting and was in the hospital. She asked for the next day off so she could wire money to them.She kept saying she had savings to send home (then what's that she told me during the interview?) The next morning she left before 6:30 and came back at night as if nothing had happened. Naturally, i asked her how's everything and she then 'remember' and just mentioned casually that father had the blood transfusion and he' fine. Much later, after i talked with my friend regarding the case that we suspend the reason she left so early cus i live far from town and that was time she actually went to the Consulate of Canada. the Consulate only opens from 8 to 10 Monday to Thursday for handling the visa processing.
Now i really don't know how to tell truth or lies from them.

Posted by IslandHopper (25 days ago)
"Now i really don't know how to tell truth or lies from them."
What's the definition of "them"?
I thought you were talking about one person who allegedly lied to you. Or does "them" mean that you don't generally know whether other people or tell lies or truth?
Posted by Nickki Leung (25 days ago)
'Them' means more than one dh. From the past experiences that i hired pdh.at least i was cheated by 3 and my mother was by 1.
Posted by Nickki Leung (25 days ago)
And it's all different excuses, different stories. Now come to think of it, they were 'awesome! '
Posted by IslandHopper (24 days ago)
"'Them' means more than one dh. From the past experiences that i hired pdh.at least i was cheated by 3 and my mother was by 1."
But now you know that those 4 were lying, so why are you still guessing "Now i really don't know how to tell truth or lies from them.". Are you still in contact with them?
Posted by Nickki Leung (24 days ago)
Islandhopper, you are trying real hard to pick on me every time i wrote something, even in the other threads. You just don't like i wrote out the fact and my own experiences to alert other employers.
But now you know that those 4 were lying, so why are you still guessing"Now i really don't know how to tell truth or lies from them.' Are you still in contact with them?
Any comments regarding this Question?
I myself don't think i will answer it. Islandhopper, i won't let you have the joy by picking on people, even after the reply, you will continue to 'look for' something to attack, to challenge the OP.
It is not advices or opinions you wrote here.
Posted by IslandHopper (23 days ago)
Nickki Leung : "It is not advices or opinions you wrote here."
This indeed should be an advice forum but you are using it to vent out your own frustration. I did not find any piece of useful advice in your posts and I want you to realize that yourself, too.
Posted by Nickki Leung (22 days ago)
Island Hooper
You are entitled to your own opinions. I am only sorry that you did not find my experience useful and wonder why you have wasted so much of your time posting.
Posted by IslandHopper (22 days ago)
"wonder why you have wasted so much of your time posting."
Because I find your biased opinions sickening and disturbing. As I already hinted, I could point out any nationality in HK in a such negative light as you did if I just picked up some actions of individuals representing that nation.
Perhaps you should improve your recruiting and management skills in order to avoid such problems in the future.

Posted by notyou (22 days ago)
nickki,
i didn't read all the posts, but certainly it stinks to invest time in a helper and then know that behind your back she was planning to leave. it sounds like you really tried to make it work. i get attached to people too and hire them with the intention of keeping one person for at least 2 years.
She is allowed to leave and everyone understands why she would, but I also think it's normal to feel a bit tired at the prospect of investing your time, money and emotions in a new helper. If you hadn't been attached emotionally, I'm sure it would've been easier. I find it hard to balance things out. I'm female. Helpers are female. I want to be reasonable but there are fine lines which get crossed if your helper is your best confidante. Still, it's hard not to speak to a kind person in your home when you are stressed out, but a little distance can be good too. I've had helpers who want to speak to me all day long about personal things like when they have their periods and if their children are passing or failing, etc. Other helpers don't say 2 words. Find someone who you like and who has the style you are looking for and the work ethic and follow your head and heart. I hope it works out better for you next time.

Posted by notyou (11 days ago)
Nicky,
You publicly asked for advice. Island Hopper is trying to help you even if you don't like what he says.
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