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stranded at the drive in...
Posted by fiorellino (465 days ago)
BF just walked out on me again. starting to get tired of his moods. though maybe its me? I cant even believe I'm writing this. can hear the voice in my head! we're arguing about trivia at the moment. I dont know why either of us even give a toss? but here we are again. I dont even know who's pushing who away anymore. I sound insane I know. get out more! but what to bl**dy do?!
(I am based in Hong Kong)
Posted by Cocoaysa (464 days ago)
anger is related to hate, hate is related to abuse, look yourself on the mirror, pull youserlf out of the situation and love yourslf more than you love that man
(I am based in Shanghai)
Posted by Justin Credible (Part Deux) (464 days ago)
Let him go.
By taking him back over and over you show exactly how little you care about you. You are a doormat with a muddy footprint on your forehead right above the words "Welcome" smeared with the grit of despair.
Why are you even with him?
How much do you fear being alone?
Do you believe you deserve better?
Are you willing to be patient before you get that?
Yeah you need to get out more. If you did you wouldnt feel this insane. I say it over and over to many people...you are not a victim. The world is full of folks with a serious victim complex who think that sh*t only happens to them and somehow they were totally undeserving of it.
Get out more. Take up hiking (summer is here), learn to windsurf, take up anything to do with the outdoors. Visit your local watering hole less...make new friends through clubs or the net. Just break from your usual routine and dont depend on your moody, possibly ex-partner for entertainment.
(I am based in Hong Kong)
Posted by Woz's Pup (464 days ago)
Men's moods! I know them well! It's worse than PMT (or PMS if you're American reading this)!!
The thing about men's moods, is that when they're not in the moods, they're so lovely! And it makes you forget what they're like when they're in a mood! I find my self tip-toing around my boyfriend sometimes cos of his moods!
I find a trip down Wan Chai with the girls often softens the moods because, well for me, almost all my girl friends are single, so he knows we're out on the Pull. Even though I don't say anything to make him jealous, cos that's mean and childish, he is still a lot nicer to me just before I go out and when I get home.
It sounds like you don't have anywhere to go out, do you have any female friends your age? Send me a message to my account thing and I'll take you out for ladies night :D It'll cheer you right up!
(I am based in Hong Kong)
Posted by setanta (464 days ago)
Justin Credible (part deux)-
Are u male or female?
Your name indicates you are male -
But I find it hard to believe a male could be such a sissy...
(I am based in Hong Kong)
Posted by Tidings 2 (464 days ago)
Men also don't talk so much......
I had to leave my 8 year relationship because of his damned moods. I only stayed as long as I did because we were apart more then together due to his constant relocations.
It was just such a drag when he would pout and not speak for days on end.
(I am based in Hong Kong)
Posted by Justin Credible (Part Deux) (463 days ago)
>setanta - What is your problem? Sissy? The poster is female, what kind of advice should she hear? "Stay, let him walk out on you over and over and then like it! Be a man! You need to put some hair on yer chest! Grow a pair!"
Sissy? Pfff...I know you are but what am I? (lol)
I'd like to hear your advice to the poster instead of your name calling, thank you very much.
*walking away looking very wounded and distraught*
(I am based in Hong Kong)
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