A lot:
Tickets somewhere nice.
A quality wristwatch.
Some:
A couples spa package.
A helilcopter ride.
Dinner and a room at the Peninsula.
A nice ring (a woman giving a man a ring has less meaning than a man giving a woman a ring).
A little:
Something seductive (kinky or pretty lingirie for you to wear for his enjoyment; fulfillment of one of those sexual fantasies you always refused to try, etc.)
Something sweet (expensive chocolates)
Something special (a hand-made card)
Or... if your guy is the "unromantic" type -- electronics. Every man likes electronics.
I'm told a man only wants three things for his birthday or special occassion- a good steak, beer and sex. How these are served and in which order are immaterial.
it is so difficult to think on what to give a hubby on valentine's espeially if you have been together for quite a long long time. I was thinking of baking some heart shape cookies tomorrow, make a personalized card, and have dinner together.