Men and love

Posted by zonked (521 days ago)

Can men really be in love, or love, two women at the same time??

(I am based in Hong Kong)

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Posted by chris79 (521 days ago)

Of course men can really be in love,the question is do women recognize when a guy is totally in love? and that brings up the question, how does he show it.. and is the way he shows it compatible with your expectations.
Being in love with two women at the same time seems hard, but theoretically it is possible, even though I wonder how much is love, how much is simply desire and how much is just flattering of the male ego...

(I am based in Beijing)

Posted by zonked (521 days ago)

Of course men can be in love.

The question I am asking is can they be in love with two women at the same time?
Because it isn't possible for most women to do that and hence to even understand that men can do it.

(I am based in Hong Kong)

Posted by car_lover (521 days ago)

I can't love 2 women at the same time, unless one is my sister/mom and the other my lover.

(I am based in Hong Kong)

Posted by Aulelei (521 days ago)

only if he loves himself more than the two women

(I am based in Hong Kong)

Posted by daTenshi (521 days ago)

zonked: the question might just be can you really be in love, or love, a man whom loves someone else at the same time??

(I am based in Tokyo)

Posted by Tidings2 (520 days ago)

I think it's possible to love more than one man at a time. It is not easy but it can happen especially when you are still single.

(I am based in Hong Kong)

Posted by Sasquatch (520 days ago)

I'm gonna have to say you can definatly love multiple women at the same time BUT and its a big but Im talking about here, "In love" carries a certain degree of infatuation that probably cant be equalled out between multiple recipients.

That draws a distiction between loving someone and being in love with someone that might not be what you want to think a whole lot about if your askin this question. It might mean your the loved one not the "in love with" one or you wouldnt be feeling the crunch. After time and a bit of nagging plus years of fertility treatments that just made my wife too much of a science project to be mysterious anymore I just dont feel the pull of being in love with my her anymore. On the other hand I could never do anything to hurt her because I DO love her. I dont know if I will fall in love with someone else eventually or if I should look for that? But either way I am deffinatly feeling the answer to your question here. I love her but I am beginning to really check out other women and have felt drawn to nice atractive women I meet when Im away working or juat away. I didnt have those thoughts or feelings a few years ago. Doesnt mean I dont still love her. Dont really know what iut does mean though. After being with her for 10 yrs I will always love her and care very much about her.

Hope it helps but doesnt hurt to hear that.

Please dont think Im a scum bag for actually airing some honest feelings here in hopes it will help you out. Im not running around China cheating at every opp I get and believe me there are opportunities.

When you are really "In love" w someone (and getting enough to keep the pipes cleaned out) then shes the only woman on the planet and you dont think about any others.

Sorry if thats too long...

Sasquatch

(I am based in Guangzhou)