Posted by malka (382 days ago)
My eyes big as saucers reading this...
There is nothing to talk about really unless the kids wish to introduce both sides and even then, do not interfere, just get to know them.
Are you worried because they are having a sexual relationship or might be? You should educate your son about legal age, STDs, preventive measures and responsibility should she get pregnant, it is not only her problem but both families will be affected.
If you have conservative values that say once boy-girl date, their parents should have a say, then rethink as society is changing and it appears your son can handle his own affairs. Relax.
(I am based in Hong Kong)