Posted by Starbucks2 (404 days ago)
Thanks for your kind thoughts. I am also super paranoid this time round and certainly not excited as I think that if I get excited fate will slap me down with another problem with the baby or it will end in a miscarriage. I am still in the 1/3 miscarriage rate period so statistics say that I shouldn't get too carried away buying baby stuff. It will be very good news for you if you are pregnant and I hope that if you are, you will allow yourself a little excitement (although I know from experience that this is very hard given what both of us have been through). Keep us posted. It is lovely to see good news on this forum where so many are busy TTC'ing.
(I am based in Hong Kong)