Posted by gwern (154 days ago)
I think you need to look at the location of your wedding and reception. That may dictate what will suit the occasion. I would suggest you go and try on a variety of dresses ( with a good friend) start with c*cktail dresses, move on to ball gowns,maybe suits? forget the colour to begin with, just look at the style. Look at the stuff you have in your wardrobe that makes you feel good whe you wear it. You want this to be something special regardless of your age! You can get a dress made in the right colour and style...When you have your dream dress you can then decide on hair,hat,veil?? Don't steer away from whiteish colours (because you feel you may have kissed a few too many frogs) as this is your chance to look the bride if you want it!! However other colours may look more striking on you and you want to look gorgeous!!
(I am based in Hong Kong)