Like I said, it's my personal opinion and what I would do. You may not have the same opinion and do as I would, and you are entitled to it.
All I'm saying is what I would do in TKO's position.
Perhaps I do not run in liberal circles but my baby's health and safety is paramount.
So, it's in my conservative own way, that is how I would act. Perhaps governments everywhere which propagate and promote healthy and responsible sex lives should be criticized too. In this day and age, no one can afford to look the other way when it publicly frowned upon personal choice or not. It's just down right irresponsible.
If lablab, you are happy to hire such a helper. By all means, it's your prerogative.
FYI... this is how herpes can spread:
Direct skin-to-skin contact can spread herpes. This includes touching, kissing, and sexual contact (vaginal, anal, and oral). (Taken from
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and gonorrhea
Gonorrhea is spread through contact with the penis, vagina, mouth, or anus. (
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This is just an example of how two STD can spread. There's a whole list of STIs and how they can spread.
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So if my DH is having unprotected sex and has potentially been exposed to it and contracted it, I would NOT be comfortable living with such a person. I know our past DH kisses our son. So, I'm sorry... it's absolutely TABOO for our family to live or hire such a person. It may be her business but if her business can potentially endanger my family, then I'm sorry, but that person has just got to go.
A DH is not a regular company employee. You live with this person. So let's not pretend that it's ok/easy to decide to live with a stranger you've hired who isn't careful. It's not even easy if it's your own family member!
But really, at the end of the day, to each his own. You run your own household, and only you can decide what is suitable for your household.