Deciding on the right kind of Domestic Helper...

I know that this might sound a little strange but my wife has been talking a lot about getting a DH that is attractive and takes care of her fashion vice a plain jane that wears sweats, flip-flops, and sandals all the time. Speaking honestly, I could care less about the fashion habits of my prospective helper. I think the opposite of my wife. A am a happily married man but still a 'MAN' and I certainly do not want an attractive woman (besides my wife) living with me just for the slightest possibility of tempation. Tell me what you think. Am I justified in my beliefs?

I don't think that's good idea though..a friend of mine use to have a Filipino DH,maid is black beauty what happened is my friend's hubby attracted to her,until they decided to get divorse..

In any case, most of the helpers have their work look (flip flops, sweats) and their going out or day off outfit that are completely different! Apparently, my ex-helper, who wore Tshirts and flipflops and no makeup during the day, would dress up in sexy clothes and high heels and lots of make-up to go out nights and days off. She was not an attractive girl, but still stayed out all night-even on work nights-and this became a problem because she was too tired to do her job. She was definitely NOT going to church!


I hope that you are not really so weak that you would be tempted by an attractive helper, but at least you are admitting this...maybe it crosses everyone's mind, but they aren't so willing to admit this. If you were hiring a pool boy or male driver, would you also be concerned about his attractiveness, and whether he would be a temptation to your wife??? He he.