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Posted by pinklet 19 yrs ago
inspite of telling my maid of three months...all the work she is kind of careless.initially i thought that i wud give her some time...but things have not changed.although she takes gud care of my baby but i got to hear from friends that she hits my child in my absence.i have not confronted her.she is good in appearence but recently i stumbled on her letter and i found that she used abusive language for me.ever since i have started disliking her.if i ever correct her mistake(which is really rare)all she does is cry.i dislike her but not her work.i dont know wat to do......please help???

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cd 19 yrs ago
You've heard from friends that she's hitting your child and you don't know what to do. She should be dismissed straight away.

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ariel 19 yrs ago
I am stunned that you are even asking the question. Why would you want to continue to employ someone who hits your child. It doesn't matter how good the rest of her work is, how can you ever leave her alone with your child again. You need to get rid of her immediately.

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ShazP 19 yrs ago
Pinklet,

If you want your child to be brought up well & in no danger, get rid of this DH immediately. There are so many more DH's who would do a better job with your family.

This one seems like a dangerous woman.

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john5023 19 yrs ago
Simple and only answer is to find a new helper. Hard to believe you are even asking for advice on this matter.

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wendy7 19 yrs ago
Well said John. I am shaking my head in total disbeilef.....you heard this and not confronting her? I cannot think of one possible reason that you are doing this. YOUR friends are a fairly reliable source and you've done nothing. I'd be marching her out the door....TODAY.

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geiboyi 19 yrs ago
And the crying - take it with a pinch of salt. I've been through that too. Amazing, just like a tap.


Mmm, but how did you 'stumble' on a letter? And then accidentally read it?


But anyway, of course she has to go.

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