What do you advice

My helper sister is working for this family.They are very good to her.However,there's one thing that bothers her and she shared it to her sister and her sister ask me some advice.Her boss(the man in the family)travels a lot the woman was not working and there's 2 children 8 and 9 yrs old.The situation is,everytime the guy is on the bussiness trip,there's another guy who come around and even spent the night together with her female employer.The helper knows whats going on and is trying to hide anything from the kids.This other guy is a family friend,therefore the kids knows him.One time,the son woke up in the middle of the night and found out"uncle shoes" outside her mother's door,he went to ask "che-che" off course the maid doesnt want to let him know,she told him that shoes was left since in the afternoon.Now,the maid was too worried what will happen next.

A helper should never, ever reveal what goes on in the private lives of her employers. It is simply none of her business. She should be like the three monkeys, see no evil etc etc.

tell your friend to turn a blind eye. If the maid is not maltreated /abused then leave it as it is.


If this woman can cheat on her husband, god knows what she will accuse the maid of if the maid tells the husband.


If the wife can bring her lover to her home with her kids there, do not mess with her!!!! She will do everything to protect herself and destroy your friend . she cannot win