Posted by
111111
19 yrs ago
A lonely woman got to know a married man from internet.
It is by no means a good feeling.
Should never try this if you are a decent woman, still wanting marriage.
You know what the man would say to get her heart.
This is an old story.
Do you think it is a waste of time for the woman?
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TC
19 yrs ago
Probably. See it for what it is and move on, else a lot of heartbreak is looming on the horizon.
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Definitely she should move on. A man who would do this doesn't have good character. Think: lying, cheating, breaking promises, putting himself first. Is this the kind of man any woman would want, really? I've also seen it so many times, if he would do it once he'd do it again. As soon as one woman is no longer as exciting, he goes and finds another one.
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But do you think there is no pure-just-enjoying love?
yes, he is alone here, in his best situation and condition, but he goes back on every important holiday.He told me there is little link between his wife and him now,but do you believe?
I doubt how long his love to me will last.
Actually I have found his change since last two weeks. I knew something happened in his mind or in his life, maybe he found another woman from internet.I don't want to be a stupid woman to cling to him every night, thinking that is the best way to keep an eye on him.
should not start.It is a mistake!!!
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It is not worthwhile to be "the other woman", as you will be questioning your own values later. Break free and start afresh.
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I often wonder how women can get involved with a married man and expect NOT to get hurt in the end. It's a known fact that the married man will almost never give up what he has, especially when there are kids involved - there's just too much to lose.
Some of the posters here are right. If you can go into it without getting too emotionally involved, then by all means go ahead and knock yourself out. But if marriage is what you really want then you're just wasting your time by doing what you're doing.
I can understand the thrill of doing what's forbidden - there's definitely something very sexy about it. But the truth of the matter is the excitement will wear off sooner or later and before you know it, you become "the other woman" - not a good position to be in.
Someone is going to get hurt here, and it's not him.
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11111,
The initial excitement of a relationship with a married man you met through the internet is a huge potential for hurt and disappointment. While it may be an instant answer to your loneliness, don't expect long-term commitment and a lifetime of happiness. And also be considerate of the people whom you will hurt along the way.
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yes.there were excitment and warmth before, and now there is hurt and disappointment because of his change. He is planning his retreat now,but don't tell me the change in his mind which hurts me. All those sweet words of lifetime caring faded in the air. Having felt the change which disappointed me. It is like a game or a novel, I experienced this in a very short time. Not sure why this man not just tell me the truth in his mind, so that we will say good bye immediately. He is still lying and cheating to me. I can't say anything because when we began I know he has a family maybe he cheated hiw wife many times.
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Thanks. I do respect him, respect myself, and his family. It is him who crazily chase after me, not me initiate the fire.Now I am punished by accepting him. I don't want to hear any more lies from him.
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Poor you!
Do you really expect sympathy?
My husband spend most of the week in China also, and comes home to his family every weekend. I have to trust and believe that he is being fathful to me even though I know there are women like you who are quite content to pick over another woman's relationship.
Needless to say, I will be moving the entire family to China in the next few months to ensure our relationship maintains its course.
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Vulvic, I hear you girl! Been that woman and China aws the best bet for our family too. Plans p**ed off one woman in particular and she didn't hesitate to show me the whole time I was there. Takes 2, but some women don't make it any easier........
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Cheeky cow! I hope you saw her off!
So far hubby has been well behaved but I'm not taking any chances. It's not the sole reason for us moving but it certainly has speeded the process up a little.
Hope all is well with you now.
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11111,
"I do respect him, respect myself, and his family. It is him who crazily chase after me, not me initiate the fire.Now I am punished by accepting him. I don't want to hear any more lies from him."
You are blessed with the faculties to make your own decisions. He is not coercing you into the relationship. Party's over, time to leave...
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11111, "I don't want to hear any more lies from him...", why not? The man's a professional. He lies to his wife, lies to you, may well have done it before and will certainly do it again. A mistress always has to keep on her toes because her relationship is based on deceit and always capable of repeat performances.
Thanks Vulvic, all is well, looser leash!!! :-)
it can't be the sole reason to move up, as that wouldn't work, things can happen anywhere...it just doesn't hurt to have his family around him as a 'gentle' reminder!!!
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Taps
19 yrs ago
Vulvic, best decision you made, I know how it is, I live here.
1111, please move on.
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Thank you all.
I have moved on.
This relationship never last for a long time because there is no base, just like a house without base.
For wives, don't worry about your hubbs who are away from your family. They know the limits and they will never hurt you because family is the priority to them. Men only want short term funs.
If they find or chase after a woman like me, it is better for them to go to the prostitutes.
Maybe I should be blamed for accepting his kindness, but I don't think I am doing something to hurt his family because I know I am much better than those willful Shanghainese girls, and at the same time, don't trust your husbands too much if he is away most of the time. But of course you should be smart enough to know how to handle this situation to keep him.
This is the advice from me who is a woman invloved with a married man.
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It is never a good idea to borrow someone else's husband...
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You have danced with a married man. Someone who belonged to somebody else and probably has kids that love him dearly. If you believe in karma, as I do, then you do not deserve happiness.
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I rather doubt she took his di*k and forced it into her. Like she said
I may be mistaken but to me there is an element of mea culpa in the post.
.. karma in the loose sense of the word I guess.
111111 you DO deserve happiness. Move on, leave that loser behind and learn from this. A man that can lie to his wife like that is no prize. If he can do that to her he can do that to you also. You don't want to be with someone that you have to be on constant high alert with. Don't waste your time with him and go find someone without baggage.
Good luck.
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mao
19 yrs ago
Every thing happens for a reason ! So is everone happens to come into our life ! Learn the lesson, then carry on wiht your journey. No one's journey in life is a straightforward one. We sometimes can't choose my companions on the way. If he disappoints you, or you disappoints yourself in this short course, just leave him and be brave enough to move on. To kind and forgiving to any of your travel companions and yourself. Life is a beautiful and a long way.
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mao
19 yrs ago
Every thing happens for a reason ! So is everone happens to come into our life ! Learn the lesson, then carry on wiht your journey. No one's journey in life is a straightforward one. We sometimes can't choose my companions on the way. If he disappoints you, or you disappoints yourself in this short course, just leave him and be brave enough to move on. To kind and forgiving to any of your travel companions and yourself. Life is a beautiful and a long way.
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