Posted by
hikaru
19 yrs ago
I have confided to a person about some personal opinion on a certain matters.So this person agreed with me at that time and even joined in the conversation to encouraged the process of the topics.But later,that person turned the back on me and denying that it had never agreed with me before.
Is it normal or it supposed to be like that?
Can someone shared the experienced?
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Two faced people are a dime a dozen all over the world.
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Losing my faith in human......Just don't know when is it real or fake anymore.It really puzzling why that person wanted to entertain me and later leak out the topics and say it never agreed with me before.A lesson....
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hi hikaru its hard to find trust worthy people well i am not denying that trust worthy people doesnt exist anymore but very rare to get to see them. Well you learnt your lesson rather keep your secrets with you instead of telling them out. Gud luck :)
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sorry to hear about your situation. Sometimes some characters like to stir situations just to be a part of the drama and also because they like to know everyones' business.
Just keep your chin up, and think these were your opinions and stand by them, regrdless of this person's shifting views. Shame on that person for doing that to you, but make sure you do not let them do that again to you.
One of the best pieces of advice that I was told and helps to keep perspective for times just like this is "comes around, goes around"...
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Thanks,vanzhk and adelaide.Yeah....i think i had
learned my lesson the hard way....It still hurts a bit....Ouch!
But really..i still could not fully understand why.... Ummmm....
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Hi there,
I still see this 2 faces person.There is actually not much way to avoid it.I'm still feeling a bit umcomfortable to see her but no choices as we have some commons friends together.
Any good advices out there that what can i do when we meet?Really trying hard not to appear rude or anti social.But still....umcomfortable.
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Hikary, you already know the answer! Just be polite, smile, and don't tell her anything you don't want the entire world to know.
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Meems
19 yrs ago
People like that are everywhere, at work, friends, family etc.... don't bother talking to to her/him again. Make sure she/he knows that you are pissed off.
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it happens , pick yourself up and move on.
but move smarter.we have felt betrayed before,
GOOD luck..
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Thanks for the cheering up ladies :) I know it better to move on.But sometimes i can't help feeling hurt and betray?
Well,that person who leak out the conversation now turned out to be pretty closed to the 'one'
that was mentioned before........
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Hi there, I would be super brave and tell her to her face that you were disappointed that she felt the need to talk about you in such a way and not be a supportive person. She will completely shrink and you will have gained back the power you lost when she hurt you like that. She may apologise and clear the air so you can maintain a friendship or she may in turn decide to avoid you from now on. Either way you win. Getting things out into the light is the best way to deal with the awkwardness going on.
Then you can move on knowing why she did it if she shares openly with you.
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