i suspect my husband has a little girl friend. what should i do???

you can't get rid of the 'bitch' if he doesn't want to.


Dont play silly games with the girl on the phone. Just go and ask ur husband what he wants and if he wants the girl friend u break up with him. If he wants u then he has to break up with the little gf.

confusing > yes, I agreed what wotever said. go and ask him what he want. don't waste your time between your husband or the little girl.

Well, first may I know how many years you've been married? I think it is very common for guys to lose interest in his family after a while, therefore to go out looking for small "bitches". But since you want to keep the family, you might not have many choices. Maybe you could suggest to your husband that he should at least be sweet to you and your girl when he is at home. As for what he does outside, you may not want to know too much. And the sex thing, well, since you are the wife, you know how to set him up. Try some little games, don't be shy. I believe most guys are boys in their heart no matter what their age are. Hope it helps! Good luck!

turn up the heat in the bedroom...


no offense but guys like it when you seduce them


(send him a sexy MMS)


you dont have to be shy as he IS your hubby

What would you tell your daughter if she were in that situation? GET OUT! Don't give your daughter an example of a bad marriage to mimic when she gets older. Find yourself someone else who will love you and your daughter and provide you with a more loving example of a healthly relationship for your daughter. Having a bad relationship does nothing but cause her pain while watching the two of you not get along or not communicate with each other. Get out now!

i met someone last year and i made it clear that i do not want to be dating anyone's husband or bf. He claimed he was single and 2 mths later, when things got too cosy he told me he's married.


Sometimes, the other lil girl is just as lost as you and in fact worse, they have no respect for asian women. Some think we are dishes to be sampled.


Discuss with your husband, where is this all leading to and what does he realy want.

I think that you are posting on the wrong forum. The best place to be asking for this advice is from married men not married women for this sort of thing.


Asking your husband straight out whether or not he is having an affair is usually a waste of time and a very bad strategic move. (Very few men would admit to their wives that they have been screwing around. The majority of cheating husbands will lie until their faces are blue.) Confronting "the other woman" usually is not very helpful to your situation either. The only times when direct confrontation seems to deter these sorts of liaisons is when the affair is in its very early stages or if she doesn't know that your husband is married.


If you are really serious about maintaining your marriage and getting rid of this other woman, you will need a bit of patience. The most effective way is to play the sweet dumb wife. Don't let your husband know that you are on to him and make excuses for unexpected crises at home at inconvenient times -- e.g. her birthday, on those nights when he is "working late". As long as you are not too obvious about it, the other chick will tend get fed up after a few months and leave for greener pastures. The chick is weak link in all this, not the husband. So try to act as normal as possible with hubby-- don't suddenly try to impress him with what a great wife you are. On the other hand, don't scream at him-- that will just drive him to the arms of his girlfriend. (You can kill him at later).


However, I really think that is advisable to know what is going on. If you really want to confront hubby, you need to get incontrovertible evidence **before** not after your approach him. If you act suspicious, he will bury his tracks and you will never really know for sure what kind of man you are married to. (Be forewarned that you might not like what you find and must be emotionally ready for unpleasant truths-- after some investigative digging, you might find as some women do that this is just the tip of the iceberg-- this "fling" might really be an on-going love affair spanning several years etc. etc.). Still, it is worthwhile to get the bottom of this now because you don't want to be in some sham marriage only to find out the truth in mid-life.


Anyway, if you discuss your marital problems with your husband, it is to best to leave your suspicions about his extra-marital affairs out of it for the time being-- and just talk about what how he feels about the marriage in general. If he has been denying any misbehavior up to now, there is absolutely no reason to think that he is suddenly going talk heart to heart with you about his affairs.


Good luck