Ever Feel Insanely Lonely?

Yup...I'm there right now. And it's not fun. At all.


Being alone is one thing, I've always been an introvert, and it suits me..I value my quiet time and privacy.


But I guess at some point it hits home that you cant always see yourself through tough times...a friend or two could make a world of a difference.


To socialize and feel like we can relate and identify with others is really pivotal to our own personal development...I've only realized that now! But being "out of it" for so long makes taking the first step wildly intimidating!


How does a young women my age (21) go about making friends around here? Doesn't help that I'm scared on top of it all... Not sure if I could handle joining a big group of girls for a night out, I'm thinkin..baby steps...


My lack of social skills (or to be brutally honest, my social anxiety) has hindered me in more ways than I can count..especially in terms of finding work. I know I've got to kick this...it's now or never!


I'm just looking for advice, if anyone here can point me in some kind of direction or hey! if you're in a similar position and are looking to make new friends...I'd really appreciate the heads up.


Thanks ladies!

been with my hubbi 4 almost a year and living together..


im not bored with my hubbi but sometimes i wish i can do something during the day..been unlucky with my PT job hunting so far...



been thru hell with some of my so called friends a few months back so im a bit unsure on how to start making new ones..


sometimes i get so lonely i cry with out even noticing..

Been there myself.


You don't have to be alone to feel lonely. I have lots of friends and family I love and I know who loves me, but there came a point in my life when I felt there's something missing and I can't figure out what it is. I was laughing on the outside but inside, I felt hallow. But that was before and I'm glad I'm over it.


Anyway, MeDee, aloneforaday, maybe you should try taking a class or a hobby. It's a good way of meeting new people. Going out more and trying different activities could lead you to meet interesting personalities that could spice up your life.


Like Chiki said, baby steps. Friendships are earned and you are not likely to gain one if you don't make yourself available for it.


I haven't joined any gym before because I couldn't care less about exercise. I jog from time to time but that's about it. Now i want to try something new...take up Tae Bo!LOLS! Am I self-conscious i may embarrass myself? Hell yeah! But then again, it could be fun too.

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