thanks a million attorney sun(linda)

she doesn't want to withdraw the case because she thinks i will use it to scold in future 'that she took me to court and later canceled, i was told that if i don't agree for a devroce the court cannot devroce us, how true is that, my wife knows that the bad result of our seperation will be felt by the children, my kids, one is 3 and the other is almost 6. her family now claim she did it out of anger and will not cancel due to saving face., i still love her and she does too but since it has gotten to this level, we just have to head to court, i got a lawyer who will only fight for me not to devorce or get possession of my son. but following ur advice it seems you have great experince in this, can you give me an advice on what to do . thanks attorney sun. i hope i can get ur contact details to talk to you directly


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It's true that the court usually won't divorce you at first as you claim you don't agree to(except you have serious fault, which is not true of your case). However, if you want to stay happily with your wife and your kids in future, the best thing you should do is to compromise--what your wife want you to do? What you can do for her and your kids? Since you've got a lawyer, it seems easy for you to get local legal advices on the case.

Anyway, I'd like to help you out if necessary. You can contact with me at lindasun914@yahoo.com.cn.