Posted by
jwjane
17 yrs ago
Do you believe that there's true love between 21 year man and 40 year old women? if so, what if you are the woman, will you leave your job and everything to follow the 21 year old student to New York and follow the heart and love to make the relationship work?
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the woman who follows him to NYC must be out of her mind....
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Call me cynical, but I think it's more lust than love.... 21 is very young and unless you are Demi and Ashton, both are loaded with money, I think t's just too much to lose for the 40 yr old woman...
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At the age of 21 a difference of 20 years is too great and likely the interests too divergent. At 21 your life, goals, etc are hardly fully developed or explored.
Assuming he is American and you are not, the cultural differences will only add to any stresses caused by the age difference. In North America such age differentials are not common and U.S. immigration might have a 'take' on the arrangement which might think it is a marriage of convenience and deny entry.
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The woman should consider more than the 21 years old boy. Althoght Life is short, we should make ourself happy, but 40 is not for a woman for try.
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jobin, i would answer exactly the same if the roles were reversed
leaving job and leave everything behind and move to another country for such a relationship is just plain reckless
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""Don't focus on an arbitrary numbers difference in your ages. If you are getting along, you have good communication and problem solving, and you love each other, that's a precious thing, and far more important than any age difference could be. If other people have a problem with it, let it be their problem.
Whether or not a relationship is healthy is not determined by age differences, but by the interaction between the partners. A 10-year difference is not too difficult to bridge, but a 20-year differences or more in age can lead to some difficulties as the partners get older. For example, the younger partner may mature and reconsider his choices, or an older partner may confront aging problems much sooner. But, as long as both parties are adult, and the couple has talked about their age difference and the future possibilities, nobody should make judgments about their respective ages.""
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