How can I date with a local HK girl? ...seriously



ORIGINAL POST
Posted by ttgunpower 15 yrs ago
Is it easy to date with Hong Kong girls? I mean a long term and stable relationship:)


As I'm new to HK (Asia), and just started to have a good feeling for my colleagues. She's a local girl. But seems the so-called "culture gap" really exists.


I felt really excited to talk with her in the beginning. But it turns out become a bit awkward when we share some value, especially when we talk about friends and family. I do believe she feels the same way as me. And my jokes do not work well...



Anyway I am totally into her now. For friends who've been here for a while, any experiences or suggestions to share?

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COMMENTS
inceptionfan 15 yrs ago
Well, I know some girls who are local HK, and I think the problems you mentioned above are just normal since absolutely big differences exist between western and eastern countries. As far as I know, Hk girls are considerate and nice, they are easy to get along with. So just talk with the girl directly if any confusion exsits. I promise you two could work this out.

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kty2010 15 yrs ago
I saw many couples are one foreign guy and one local girl in Hong Kong. Don't worry too much about the cultural gap. I believe you may needa change the ways you think first. Sometimes it's good to share different culture with people from other countries and appreciate her countrie's culture as well. You should show you passion to know more about her, her friends, her interest, and her culture as well if you really want to date with her.


Don't worries. You can do it!


anyway, do you know hobbies of the girl? Movie? Sport? Shopping?

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yeswd1 15 yrs ago
No offense, but Chinese girls are usually less independent, so what u need to do is showing more cares:) my experience..

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kty2010 15 yrs ago
yes.. it's so true that girls in hk are less independent and need more so called 'sercure feeling'...


in fact how's your personality?


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GC001 15 yrs ago
Why not turn the different cultures to your competitive advantages~you can show the new things that she is not unfamiliar with and try to give her a fresh experience ~

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frances111 15 yrs ago
Thus just show how strong your internal spirit is which could totally protect her and make her feel safe. As far as I know, foreign boys are funny, so just make it one of your advantage!

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spurtio 15 yrs ago
Offer to carry her handbag! :-)

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ozcooler 15 yrs ago
@spurtio, cannot agree with u.

My girl and I once had conflicts, but time and tolerance helped us go through all difficulties. A tip for u, learn how to cook desserts, it always works:)



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inceptionfan 15 yrs ago
@spurtio, which means boy should be careful enough.

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Typhoon 15 yrs ago
Personally, I don't bother with Hong Kong girls.

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GC001 15 yrs ago
Most of the HK girls prefer to go for a movie on the first date. You may try that first and have a nice dinner with her afterwards.

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