over heard husband .....wtf?

not quite sure what to do and would appreciate any advice ...


what would you do if you where me??


my husband calls me today without realising it! hes out having few drinks with his friends -so i put the phone straight back down -he calls again ...same thing ...i can hear him talking , laughing with his mates so i try shouting his name -i gather it must be in his pocket and hes unaware...so i put the phone down as im busy in work -


anyway ..he calls again ...all i can hear him saying ''yeah the wife is away and my brother was in town so i took him to wanchai we bought 3chicks back with us hahaha''

WTF...................

Im then realise he must be talking about when i was out of town last month and his 26 brother came to stay for a week-


i am so hurt , angry , upset , furious ...not sure

I guess you have to decide if this is unacceptable to you or if it is something you can forgive. I walked out of a relationship for a similar reason years ago. I figured if he does it once then he is more than likely going to do it again. Its not the relationship I wanted to be in.

On the other hand I have a dear friend who has chosen to stay with her husband after an affair and from all accounts they are in a better place now than they have ever been.

Its a tough one thats for sure. I definitely wouldn't shove it under the rug though. I would guess that you will become mistrusting and resentful. Really how could you not? Best of luck.