Feeling so loss of confident

I have some serious dark eye circles. They are not the ones due to less of sleep but instead being the skin around the eyes is too thin and the blood vessels are too obvious. I have tried just sooooo many kind of eye treatments and cream/gels but nothing helps. Putting on the concealer is OK for like for s short time and then they looks sort of greyish.


Coz of these dark circles, i feel so down. I don't dare to talk to others looking at them directly. When i am travelling to work/home, i feel every one is looking and talking about my eyes. There are times when i actually hear people talking abt them. I am a non-chinese but i understand chinese completely (and others may not know). There have been so many times when these young chinese kids will point at me, giggle and talk tho their mothers abt me. Can't these mothers just teach their kids some sense??


And there are times when these high school kids will like look at me with "BIG EYES" and laugh together.


I am just so loss of confident. Can't something be done abt my eyes???? Sometimes, before going to bed, i pray to God that when i get up in the morning, all these dark circles will be gone ... but that obviously never came true ........ so depressed :(

Hi Pocky,


First of all no body is perfect and I belive women have problem with their figures, hair, skin etc... Just try to concentrate on the beautiful parts of your body and don't forget that you (and all of us) should be proud of what that body can do rather than what it looks like.


I don't know what sort of treatments you have tried up to now and I don't know exactly what your condition is so I'm sorry, I can not advise any solution... Perhaps if you visit a dermatologist or a vein treatment center they can give you some idea about what are the options for you.


Good luck!

thanks all for your kind words ... i def. understand that i should not really bother abt the comments made from some people that i dunno .. but its easy said than done. When i am out with my kids, people are like "wow .. ur kids are so beautiful ...... MUST be on their dad!!" ..... excuse me!! I am not some ugly looking woman .. except the dark eye circles, i think i do look decent and i am sure the kids do bear some of my good things .. but those words does hurt!


When i said i am using concealers, i actually meant those camoflauge (spelling?) ones that i ordered from a bridal make-up expert.


I had used many different HIGH branded creams .. but nothing helped. Been to a dermatologist in CWB once and he simply sent me off by saying that there's noting that cud be done other than hiding them by make-ups which is not actually happening.


I feel bitter when i see people looking at me and giggling and gossips in between them. i simply can't go out WITHOUT any make up ... i SO SO SO wish some kind of miracle cud happen and there will be like a guy coming up to me and saying " i have the cure for u" ....