Are you ready to live alone all your life?

It is the 40th Birthday for me, and I couldn't sleep well last night, depressed by the fact that I am still single at this age.Everytime I woke up, feeling like dropping into a deep cave without a path out. It is terrible in China for a woman to be single at this age, particularly I am not a strong woman with successful career, and I am not a busy woman with busy schedule. There is no reason for me to being single untile now. I am just a normal Chinese woman with good education, making a living in a decent way, liking all the good things in life. I have tried to find a way out, such as looking for events and activities, but I felt lost in those 10 years younger groups, and also lost in the warmly chatting business groups. I was a stranger there.

Chinese men think I am too old for them,though I look nice;Foreign men are crazily chased by Chinese girls. And a Matchmaker contacted me from my ads,asking for 30000RMB, and promising she can find a special one for me.Hahaha,shall I try? I know there are many lonely souls, but they are driven by the crowded and busy Shanghai city life, that they only get the fast food style personal life.Maybe they are happy with this.

I want to know: Are you ready to live alone all your life?

i don't think i will, but i do like it

I am all on my own, and have been like this for over 10 years. On the contrary, I can't imagine to be stuck with someone all the time. I treasure the time that I spend with myself. If being alone is what life takes you, then take it. No big deal.

I surposed if i cannot meet a right one within ten years untill im 40's.


There some souls destined to find comfort only in solitude, those to be admired,not touched, for fear they will vanish in no time,,,,,


If i have to make a choice bettwen inner peace and acompany, i'd like to be alone,,,,

You can try online dating site...it is quite popular to be used in foreign countries. I met my boyfriend from the site and he is a very very nice guy. But sometimes you might meet guys who really wants one night stand. So be careful. And GOOD LUCK

I met my husband also through online dating. I think there are more good people out there than bad. Give it a try.