Do I want him back?

Hi girls... Im Ari, and I'm 20. My ex bf and I have dated for 7 months. Everything was great it the beginning, he was super sweet to me and super attentive. Because I had super strict parents, I have not really had a very serious relationship before. I dated other people before but it was very brief and I did not invest too much emotion. This was the first boyfriend that I completely fell for. He is a party boy and I only go out on occasion. This was my biggest concern prior to beginning this relationship, but I did not care at the moment because I like him so much. Like I said everything was great at first, but there were things that I noticed that got really weird, after a few months together he wouldnt let me play with his phone anymore. I have noticed that he turn off his text previews and became very protective of his phone and such. He would not find me as frequently anymore. He was never a quick replier to texts in the beginning but it would get so bad that he would not reply for an entire day. Then he would just tell me that he slept the entire day. Then I told him that I was too tired of this relationship because I did not want to feel like I'm pressuring him all day to find me or to feel so sad because he was missing.
We broke up a week after our talk. He ignored me during the entire week of silence and I had to go to his home to find him to talk about it. He got another gf a few days after we broke up and slept with many many girls. Oh, I thought I should mention that I have never slept with a guy before including him. But he never touched me or wanted to advance with me either. This confused me before of his track record of sleeping with many girls. However, I did find out that he cheated on me multiple times. We didnt talk for a month then he suddenly started texting me again, just like how he did when he chased me. It felt so good again. Everything I loved about him was coming back. He asked me to be his gf again. But I said i had to think about it. He said he would give me time. However, when I spoke about this with him again, he said he didnt think it through enough. And now we dont talk to each other anymore.

But i miss him so much. I really want him back. Should I go for it and chase him? Or do I just let him think it though and wait for him?? Im so confused.

Don't take him back , You deserve better. It's Normal to have those feelings now, please trust me they will go away eventually and you will move on. For now keep yourself busy, go hang out with your friends/spend time with your family. Take care hun!

Arilala, I think you are worthy of a real man, who will not change his mind, like a girl!
I know that now it is a very difficult time for you, but you have to live over it.

Try to fill your free time in order not to think about him. Watch serials, go sport or try dating sites (like kovla.com).

Believe me, if you meet another guy, everything will change!