men and women attitude toward sex



ORIGINAL POST
Posted by fluffyhua 19 yrs ago
people keep telling me that men can have sex with any girl that they don't have feelings for. and it s different for women. women feel attached to men after sex and they refuse to have sex with men they don't like. What do u think?

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fluffyhua 19 yrs ago
Men could be just f**king animals. A girlfriend told me that one day she felt pain while having sex with her bf and she started moaning. But the bf kept going on and on till he finally finished. I guess guys lasting too long could be a problem as well. Anyway, the point is, men just get what they want and that is it. I remember a friend (male) told me a joke:


A: Do u know how to give good orgasms to women?

B: Come on, who gives a sh*t...


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zhngJ 19 yrs ago
it's universally proven, men have sex whenever they want to. doesn't matter where, who or when. about women, well, ya know... you know?

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BarefootChrissy 19 yrs ago
Women who strives to be equal with men lack ambition *winks*.

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BellaGirl 19 yrs ago
Now I've heard it all. What a croc. Go back to your homework kids. Fluffyhua, the point is not that men get want they want... the point is, they find willing (and stupid) women who allow them to treat them like crap. Don't play the victim and remember not all guys are the same. I know arseholes and I know gentlemen. It sounds like you're a little immature, othewise you'd know that a guy lasting too long is a blissful problem to have.

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seasunfu 19 yrs ago
when men want to make sex, all the men are the same,

in generally, there are good moral kind friendly cute responsible men AND bad men

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fluffyhua 19 yrs ago
I totally understand. It s just a stupid discussion anyways...

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fluffyhua 19 yrs ago
Most porns don't turn women on coz they r made for men. Porns are made for men coz they have stronger desire. Even masturbation seems more fun for men.

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Vulvic 19 yrs ago
Ha!!!! What a load of rubbish,all my girlfriends have 'toys' and they're not afraid to use them.


As for porn, that is fairly subjective. There are all kinds that cater for different tastes. Some women hate it unequivocally and some love it. Again, it is up to the individual.

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balzac 19 yrs ago
Hey I dont mind watching porn. And I especially like those kinky ones catered for men.


And I am a straight woman.


If you think masturbation is more fun for men, fluffy, I think you havent been doing it right.





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fluffyhua 19 yrs ago
Good one Balzac. WOuld you mind explaining how u do it? Many thanks in advance.

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balzac 19 yrs ago
there are plenty of websites available do a search. I dont think posting graphic instructions here is allowed anyway. Good luck

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fluffyhua 19 yrs ago
Hahahaha..ok. thanks anyway. I live all right without masturbation and I don't envy men ..hehe..this is fun..have a good day

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babeebluedd 19 yrs ago
What women need to learn is to view men as sex objects as well. When you are able to do that, you'll realize that men get attached as well. When it comes to casual sex, one of you is always a bit more emotionally attached to the other person. You just gonna make sure that you are the less attached person. ;)


My guy friends here told me that Chinese women don't like masturbtion because they think that's dirty. Same thing goes for porn. As long as women relax and be a bit more openminded about it, they'd enjoy porn and masturbation.


fluffyhua: you have no idea what you are missing, girl. hahahaha... what would you think if you hear a virgin saying "i live fine without sex." hmnnnn... Also, your friend.. sigh.. i hate to say that she brought it upon herself. I'm sure she knows how to say "stop it hurts". Learn to express yourself during sex. Tell the other person what you like and what you don't like. If he's too dumb to learn then move on. Don't victimize yourself.

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balzac 19 yrs ago
This Christmas I am going to buy all my girl friends a pink rabbit/butterfly.

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chickenlover 19 yrs ago
Hey where can get quality ones? i see those on the streets and can't trust them. i wanna buy my gf one as well.

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chickenlover 19 yrs ago
Just because fluffyhua has no idea what she s missing, she s a happy girl. It doesn't matter what we think about virgins. what matters is the virgin s happy about herself. Fluffyhua, it s ok not to masturbate, as long as you are happy...best wishes

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Vulvic 19 yrs ago
I bought a few rabbits for my g/fs a few years back. Best Christmas presents ever.


Fluffy - I really hope you are winding us up. I can't understand how one woman can know so little about sex.

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fluffyhua 19 yrs ago
Hey Vulvic, I admit I don't know much abt toys, but sex is another thing. I know what to do in bed and I am very happy with my sex life.

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balzac 19 yrs ago
isnt Kitty another term for a certain portion of the female anatomy? So if you think that way, the description might not be as erroneous as you think.........


Just kidding!

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fluffyhua 19 yrs ago
And why u name urself Bumpy Dog? Hmmm, maybe that is how u look like. I don't like CATs, or DOGs.


You must be living a very boring life to make fun of people here.

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Vulvic 19 yrs ago
Fluffy - if your sex life is as good as you say, why are you seeking advice about it on this forum?


After reading your posts I got the impression that you are a young girl. That is why I thought your posts were a wind-up.



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fluffyhua 19 yrs ago
Vulvic:

Well, I reckon it's good. But I also believe there's space for e'thing to be better. U r right about me being young. I'm loving it:)


Bumpy dog:

I have no intention of hurting anyone in any way (unless i get hurt first). I just wanna listen to other ppl's stories and hopefully make some friends..that's all.

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chickenlover 19 yrs ago
I live with my bf and we haven't had sex for a week. Everyday i come back from work, feeling tired. I just don't feel like it physically. Do I have a problem?

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iwantfun 19 yrs ago
balzac, wish to be your friend before X'mas. then i will get a pink rabbit! :)

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xuelong 19 yrs ago
I think it depends intirely up to you. I have a friend who is afraid of cometement completely and loves her one night stands. I have another friend who views sex as just sex.... something to be desired and pleased. It depends on how you are trained to think in the begining. In the cave man days men just had to f*ck everyone to procreate. Those days are not really so anymore, and still when a man is really having great sex or desire for you, if you look into their eyes most of the time you will see an animal.

I personally think that its how you are trained to think about yourself and the attitude towards sex.

I simply do not find it at all appealing to have sex with a stranger or a man you dont like and have other things in common. I have never slept with a man I wasnt with, or on the first night. Im happy, and no man has ever complained about it... even more they brag about it... but I am usually quiet about my sex life, because honestly, other than us... who the hell cares to here the details?

And girl, mastrubation on the mans side is definately a plus for us as well, they do it so that when they are with us, they can satistfy us to the fullest befor they cum. I suggest you do the same for them.

Knowing what you want and like can intensify both your pleasures.


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butch 19 yrs ago
Actually our lives are not much different from jungle life.As you might have seen in the animal world the male tries to mate with as many females as he possibily can but the female on the other hand chooses only the strongest/fittest male amongest all the suitors.Come to think of it most men are animals.They don't let emotions get in the way of their recreation but we women have a long way to go...our emotions generally get the better of us.Hats off to those women who can love 'em and then leave 'em!

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swws 19 yrs ago
Who says males have bigger sexual appetites than females. Now that statement is a load of HOGWASH, and I am a woman to prove it. I am not going out having sex with strangers either, I just love with the man I love. And I need to love him a lot....(well did as we just broke up)....BUT my point is that sex is an expression of my love and desire for someone I love......and I love to love a lot

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mooncakebaby 11 yrs ago
Would you be interested to know that until the 19th century, it was believed that women were the insatiable sex? that they needed it far more than men and that sex for women was miles better? It was thought that Nature/God provided this because of the hell of childbirth. If sex wasn't absolutely wonderful for women, they'd never do it after the first kid and the human race would end. It's quite lovely, this idea, isn't it? Except men took this one step further and declared women's obsession with sex (sex, not love) made them totally unfit to govern and hence they had to be kept at home. Men, not needing sex in the same way, would be clear-headed. In the 19th century, crazy ideas about female libido began and the attitude changed and now we have this men are animals nonsense.

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