seems not right

Hi,, I am a new mum and don’t have a job which is not a good thing, I have DH who mainly takes care of our baby so there’s no excuse for me not to have one ( Job ), and I am looking but somehow seems difficult, the thing that bother’s me is that sometimes when my husband and I talk from simple conversation about jobs it would always turn into a nasty argument… the question is.... Does he have all the the right to insult me all the time We can’t agree into in the end. And we end up shouting at each other. I feel like giving up most of the time really.

Why don't you get your helper to clean the house, and you look after your baby. Take a few months out getting to know her/him and then maybe look for something part time.

PP- its crap not having a job, dont have any independence thats in my case anyway i got a lot of friends which doesnt have any job but seems alright but then i cant compare my situation to them, can i? when i say mainly taking care of my baby it doent mean im not doing anything at all i do take care of her but sometimes when things get bit difficult i pass her to DH.

the arguements that shouting seems not right everytime we talk about job. he want me to work thats for sure.

iam looking for a job now evryday though internet nothign comes out still- bummer


yah, the arguements and comes the insult, i thought its not fair but i dont say anything as he is the one working and providing all the needs and some wants that we have at home but i feel so hurt all the time his doing that.

and comes to the point , i need to have a job soon or i am leaving him of his behavoir or am i wrong.... im lost!

thnx all of u.