shoot your experiences or you think will work?
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There is no easy way to end a relationship. I really believe honesty is the key - but with lashings of diplomacy and tact.
I mean it's a lot easier to talk about how 'not' to end a relationship, eg. don't take them to a busy, public bar in the middle of Wanchai during the rugby 7's and then state, just before meeting everybody, that you don't think you love them anymore!!! This does not lead to a happy ending... See what I mean?
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so how to end it happily?
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take a a few drinks (alcohol) and blur it out loud, and walk away quickly before the tears or laughter comes out of her.
don't look back and cut your cellphone, move to a new house. or go on a vacation for 3 months. hop on a plane right away.
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Tutti - wise words as ever.... BUT
Jursen and dotseng!!! (Even though I was laughing) backing up the way I, yes I, was dumped in a public bar during Rugby 7's is an outrage!!! the 'shush it's almost kickoff again' was the point I thought either you are a total coward who hates scenes..or.. were being a right wind up merchant!!! I'll give you the benefit of the doubt on this one... but I'm watching you....!
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How to end a relationship....
Do ensure that all your money is in order and you owe nothing
Do ensure that you are faithful to them right up to the bitter end
Do ensure you are honest about why you want it to end
Do treat them as you yourself would hope to be treated
Do highlight the good times you have had together and makee sure that you have given justified reason so that there can be closure
To end a relationship just imagine if it were the other way round...then its easy....the 4 R's
Repay
Respect
Reflect
Reject
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As if I'm bitter!! Didn't you hear the laughter in the lines!!
Shame....
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I agree with the 4 R's but also timing is also very important. I was just dumped by my bf who waited too long to tell me he thought we had no future. A very cowardly thing to do - if you have doubts then get out and let the other person out of the relationship before they fall in love...that is total crap. Hanging around just for fun when you do not feel for somebody is disgusting if you know how the other person feels about you.
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hey confusedhk that falls into respect mate...i got it covered...lol
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