Women, STOP becoming a third party!

Remind yourself, you are not saving the man from a horrible marriage. No matter waht he tells you, if he is still attached to his wife, he ain't in that much pain afterall, is he?


My point of view is that 9 out of 10 weak men seeking an affair with you, will spin the story to you that they have a bad marriage so that is why you are such a savior from their misery - ain't you a saint by becomng their mistress/crutch?


Which is really only code for "Actually my marriage is ok lah, at least not bad enough for me to break off completely, but I just want an affair because I am a greedy basterd who does not want to spend my effort on making my marriage more satisfying/resolving any strained areas?"


Thanks for the 'extra benefits' while you nurse me through the 'pain' of my marriage...ever so grateful.


The truth is when you become his mistress knowing he is married/attached, you are just adding to his wife's misery because a wife can always tell when their husband is not really 100% in the marriage...And the reason she feels it? It is because his efforts with her have been distracted and diverted away, by YOU the cheating 'innocent little me' COW who knew he was attached but I just gotta have that bit of something for myself!


...And who cares about the wife? She must be some monster otherwise this poor husband would not be seeking such solace, right?


Please do not seek any sympathy when it goes pear shaped and you have wasted years on a fruitless relationship. You were/are never as innocent as you woud like to fool yourself in to believing.


If you break in and attach yourself to an occupied apartment, don't be surprised or protest your innocence when the eviction notice arrives.


Rant over....Just tired of all these hopeless marriage breakers crying poor.


In the end, the LOW DOWN husband should have been spending his time 'working' on the marriage instead of spending his efforts on you, the cheating COW! And putting the poor wife through the ringer during all the times of his mental and physical abscence from the marriage..

What does 'POV, 9/10 weak man' mean?

What does 'POV, 9/10 weak man' mean?


LGMV

"...point of view, nine times out of ten weak man...."

Was it really that difficult?


Chicken Wings

Interesting rant. Not sure whether your rant is really at the mistress or the "LOW DOWN husband"? or both!

Does it matter?

Here is a related article

http://glo.msn.com/relationships/beware-the-husband-hunter-1533311.story?gt1=49006

In my opinion, there is something wrong with women who are only attracted to married men. It's a bit like men who like to peep at women's underwear - you could see more at the beach, but that fact that it's forbidden makes it more exciting.

The other issue is validation - give the weakness of many female minds, they seek refuge in things that are popular - famous brands, latest fashions, etc - and the relationship corollary is running after married men.

Why woudl some single women want to be with a married man? because most married men must surely be more experienced, knows/understands women, more matured with good judgement, have some money, looks powerful at a certain age and with status.


Women just find these things very sexy.


Its the confidence of SOME married men that makes these single ladies go for them. ;)

DO you really think the women who are targetig your husband or any husband for that matter are reading Asia Expat? That's very funny.

Typical to blame the woman.


If my wife cheated on me, why should I blame the guy? Unless I know the guy, and they are good friends or something. Otherwise it is my wife's deal, the guy just got caught in the middle.

Chicken wings- meet the real world........ life isn't always a Nicholas Sparks novel.


As you sit up there on your high stool and look upon us mere mortals perhaps you could send us a postcard and tell us what your world is like...