My coworker asked to join me at movie



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Posted by cookie09 15 yrs ago
and your question is?

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fatkid 15 yrs ago
While I won't say the answer is definite, it seems more likely than not. So just stay on friendly terms and take it from there I suppose? A bit of flirting won't hurt tho, but making it totally date like could be a bit suffocating at this stage, just ease the pressure and go easy on it...


but not totally off pressure tho, best to deliberately make it ambiguous.

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shotcaller 15 yrs ago
Chances are she already knows you have always been attracted to her, and got fed up with waiting for you to ask her out to the movies. She would not have asked to go if she didnt think you were a decent guy . Enjoy her company, dont think too much about it and dont force anything. You're both testing the waters, and it could lead to something beautiful if you act yourself :)

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tigerbay 15 yrs ago
She is interested. She wants to spend the day with you. Shopping and a movie.

So depending on the time of day of the movie, you will need to add coffee, lunch or dinner.


Don't make a big deal of dinner. Something light to eat in a normal restaurant would be ok. You can grab something between the movies and shopping.


The only word of caution. If she goes clothes shopping, don't get sucked in to buying her clothes. This is not a date, afterall.

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Raj_Leo 15 yrs ago
Just dont eat onions or anything spicy when u meet her...or eat a chewing gum. Also dont ask her for the ticket money....Good luck :P

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fatkid 15 yrs ago
Haha you have been asking rhetorical questions. Good for you, God speed. Hope everything goes well ;) I guess all you needed was some assurance from others to boost your confidence.

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tigerbay 15 yrs ago
A big thumbs up then.



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andy_lau 15 yrs ago


I think that's just abt watch a movie....doesnt mean she's interested...

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magnolia_khan 15 yrs ago
have a great time~

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fatkid 15 yrs ago
Hmm fill us in... what happened today at work and after? It intrigues me

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Tommyknocker 15 yrs ago
Shane - are you like 12 years old? This reads like the Diary of Adrian Mole. Don't ask, don't get (and I am talking about a relationship here, not sex.)

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spurtio 15 yrs ago
Some advice for your next date. Enjoy.

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Strawberry_Shortcake 15 yrs ago
cute story shane :)

doubt the gesture meant anything tho

on a side note, when a man and a woman go out, is it common to suggest to go shopping? sorry i've never done that and find it a bit strange...me prefer shopping with girlfriends. let alone the paying bit, isn't it boring to go shopping with a guy? (i know the question is a bit silly..)

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GemmaW 15 yrs ago
On the contrary, SS.


It is a big plus if a guy enjoys going shopping. Awful if a guy agrees to go, pretends to be interested but really wanting to get out of there... but if a guy genuinely shows interest, why not?


Having said that, with the exception of my brother in law, I can't think of any other guy I know who have done that willingly. How sad.

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maxis 15 yrs ago
"a shopping date"......time to move on Shane


gallery, dinner, movie, volunteer at Doggie Rescue, museum, Fringe Club - but not shopping!


But if you do go shopping, try and remember how poncy it looks when YOU walk along carrying HER handbag - so don't do it even though quite a lot of insipid man boys canbe seen doing it in HK.

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Whitegold 15 yrs ago
It is nice to know that someone having the same problem like me. I am female but I believe I am Shane's side. Being sensitive to tiny little behaviour and being happy about it : ) Such a peaceful and sweet moment isn't it? Suddenly world turn to slowmotion and you capture exact movement of that person... My question is what is the sign when the guy tap my shoulder? I guess no significant meaning though apart from being friendly.... Unfortunately he has never asked me out... well he has long distance relationship although it seems not working out much...

But I am happy to chat with him like you shane and don't want to mess this up indeed.

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fatkid 15 yrs ago
haha


all the uncertainty and drama, feels like highschool again :)

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lucid_music 15 yrs ago
ooohh...this is sooooo cute!

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CaptDave 15 yrs ago
This is a nice story - so good to read some happy cases in this forum


Maxis -> The shopping mall was in the same complex as his apartment... actually no shopping, but an excuse to visit his apartment .... she is either hoping things will heat up, or doing some due diligence. A lot of HK girls will judge a man by the size of his apartment.... they are asking "before I entangle myself with this man, would I be happy living in his apartment ? ... what will my mother say about this ?... what will my girl friend say about this ? ... big enough for children ?"


Shane - wish you good luck, and happiness.

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