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Posted by berealistic 15 yrs ago
So many of the forum here mentioned about how husband cheat on wife after marriage, it's so sad to know since I'm still single and never married myself.


Are majority of the marriage like that?? The husband will sleep with other women eventually few years down the marriage? Is this something that cannot be prevented regardless how good the wife is?


Are these men bored with their wives or what?



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tigerbay 15 yrs ago
berealistic


You also need to remember the nature of forums like this.

Many people who post do so when there is a problem.


But if everything is happy/normal, people are unlikely to post about things being just normal. If there is such a thing as normal.


The vast majority of people (men and women) do not cheat.

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Amparo Kia 15 yrs ago
and in every marriage, cheating is just one of the problems, there are a lot of other conflicts/problems, not all breakup of a marriage is due to cheating, though it is one of the main reasons.

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CaptDave 15 yrs ago
Of course, there are some bad apples in the relationship barrel (both male and female), and people get hurt very badly.... but the majority of people (both men and women) are decent human beings.


On this site, as in life, you will come across people who hate everyone of the opposite sex....they go thru life as emotional cripples because they are unable to forgive and move on. Fortunately, they are easy to spot because they make comments like "all men cheat" or "all women are gold diggers, and no better than prostitutes". ignore them.


DO NOT let others bad experiences and hang-ups cheat you out of the happiness you deserve.


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cookie09 15 yrs ago
"not all breakup of a marriage is due to cheating, though it is one of the main reasons."


lol, you must be joking. most marriages certainly do not fail because of cheating...

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flashback 15 yrs ago
Where I come from, most people have had at least one prang (car accident/bingle) but they still drive... Some of us have even been sacked from our jobs, and hey, still managed to restore the confidence to go out and get another... Life is like that. Some people cheat, some don't, We take our chances with everything. Walking around in a negative state of mind expecting disaster is most likely going to bring it on. Deal whith problems when you have them. One doesn't avoid commitment because it is painful if it comes to an end. All living is risky, especially when you invest your emotions in it.


Agree with CaptnDave that there are a lot of negative people. Add frightened... hurt, sad etc... resilience is the most important quality to develop in life I think, and the capacity to go on hoping and taking a positive view. One usually gets what one expects.



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