Posted by
cookie09
15 yrs ago
you are thinking too much. give it a shot for a long distance relationship. meet him once or twice in london and then see how it goes.
long distance relationship is not only bad as long as there is an end to it some day
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MJ1
15 yrs ago
You're his source of entertainment / companionship in HK. Once he goes back to London and his friends, he probably will move on. If he was really into, he would just tell you straight up, instead of pussyfooting around. So don't give yourself too much expectation.
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MJ i think you're a bit too negative. however it could well be true after all so it makes sense to have low expectations when going for it
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Stay in touch with him, do not have high expectations - all relationships are important, enjoy your relationship with him, as a friend, maybe it will become more serious over time.
Do not build yourself up for a fall. Stay grounded. But keep interested in him, and interesting to him, and maybe things will progress.
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MJ1
15 yrs ago
Better to have some negativity now than to be disappointed due to over expectations later.
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"Indians -even in this day and age- only enter arranged marriages"
Completely wrong, sorry. I am not Indian but i have quite a few who chose freely. Including different nationalities (think Chinese/Indian mix, etc.). Not common but possible.
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Hey Sleepy Head
Why don't you talk to him and see if he's interested in carrying it on once he's back in London. If he is - then give it a go...
LDRs are HARD esp when you don't have much foundation in your relationship - but they can work... we were in a LDR London-HK for a year and it was based on a week spent together! We're now married with a beautiful 14 month old daughter... and btw I'm also a hard-working London based lawyer... ;)
good luck to both of you
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Hey Sleepy Head,
I was also in a long distance relationship that turned into a wedding. It is indeed possible. I really suggest you stop asking yourself all these questions and you just live your love affair. What will happen when he goes back, that is a mystery.
For now on, have fun with him. Don't get into this neurotic mood. It will just make him back off.
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Angelique this thread is over 3 year old, in case you didn't notice...
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Angelique, take your meds darling.
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