XTC and the L word?

This guy I have been going out with for a while said he loved me and said I was his dream girl and meant a lot to him the other night when he got high on XTC, but the next morning I asked him to say what he said last night again because I wanted to hear that from him sober, he wouldn't repeat that. I asked if he blacked out and had no idea what he said and he was totally bullsh*tting because of XTC, he said he did remember what he said and he did mean it. He said XTC never made him talk daft but made him say more than he usually would do when he was sober.. still he didn't repeat it.


I like this guy a lot and have been guessing his mind all the time.. Not that I like game playing, said the little L word once in a txt but got nothing back, was cool with that and thought I'd just play it by ear, but still couldn't help wondering what he thought about me and about us..


I have never used any drugs and have no idea how it affect ones behavior and mentality when you are high on it. Can anyone with experience shed some light? Is it true that you do remember what you do and say and you do mean that even you are mentally controlled by the little pill? Or it totally messes you up and you just talk daft without meaning it?



btw, I'm not deep in pain. Twas an old alias and I just couldn't be bothered to creat a new one..

it is known to make users 'horny'. You mean you are actually considering someone like him? My guess it that he probably didn't mean he 'loved' you. To (a lot of/most/) men love=shag.


Steer clear.

Thanks for all the inputs..


I'm not trying to justify his behavior, just to get it straight that he's not a heavy user, we have been partying/clubbing together all the time and twas the first time he used it infront of me, and according to him 3 times in all. And since we have already been sleeping with each other, and indeed went home together before he said that, its hard to relate it to trying to get into my pants?


But again, I think you are all right. I did hear its called kiss drug.. he could of said to anyone what he said..

regis - What I was trying to say is we had already been doing the deed before that night and on that night, he didn't have to make any extra effort to get laid, so why did he bother? he could of spared me those bullsh*t no?


And Balzac, yes I was considering getting into a relationship with this guy.. He's like my dream man, except that he never said any sweet nothings.. and thats why i was posting this thread.. really wanted to figure out if he meant it the other night..

Deepinpain, you do not need anyone like that nearby. I have worked with people on Methodone. They are getting treatment for drug addiction but they are very volatile. If you decide to get into a relationship with this"guy" one day you will have to put up with something you had not bargained for. Take care of yourself.

Deepinpain, I can't tell you whether your bf loves you or not - and neither can any of these "experts". That is something between you and him that will become clear over time.


I can, however, tell you about xtc.


First of all you can dismiss the fools using phrases like "anyone like that" and "loves drugs, not you" - they don't have enough information to judge whether this guy is having a little experiment or whether he is going down the path of addiction etc.


I tried xtc 4 or 5 times when I was in my 20s. My experience was that xtc does impart a strong feeling of "goodwill to all mankind" kind of feeling. It does make you want to say things like "i love you" etc which you really do feel at the time. But there is a reason they call them "mind altering" drugs and I would be careful about things your bf said on xtc, even if he was really sincere at the time. I agree with aiijin, treat it like you would any other drunken protestation : )


Good luck and take care.