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niña
16 yrs ago
Well...
i knew a man thrugh the internet,he was very sad,when i knew him,his girlfriend leaving him and married another man for money.i just felt he is very unluck,then comforted him,afterward we knew more about each other.and made a date,i went to his house,i got drunk,then slept in his house,he wanna have sex with me,but i said not ready for it,then he followed my order,one day he angry with me,i dont know what;s wrong.1 month later,he chatted with me on MSN again,we opened cam.he wanna i met him,then i went to his house again,this time no drink,i know everything,he wanna have sex with me again,but i still refused,caz i am not sure he is like me or just wanna play with me,i felt i like him,but why when he kiss me,is not wonderfull as i thought.
he well go back to america next month.what can i to do...i was sad when i knew he will leave..
i confused.i like him or not,he like me or not,
he never treat me or find me first,last weekend i went to his house untill following day noon,but he just drive me to subway,and every time when i leave he go home,since then he never call me.untill next time meet,he always tell me busy,so cant connect me,maybe i should stop such crazy action...
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ozbbq
16 yrs ago
Sorry darling, this is a bad experience but take it as a lesson. Yes, he was taking advantage of you mentally and psychically. You have done well to say no and lucky enough he didn't force on you the first couple of time. Now, apparently he either got what he wants than walk away or he didn't get what he wants and doesn't want to waste more time on you.
Walk away from this man asap, do not respond him even he contact you again.
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niña
16 yrs ago
eh.....
it;s hard for me.this is my first love.what a pity girl.
sometime i thought really like him..that;s why when he contact me,i could not refused him whatever.. this is worst experience .
anyway thanks for you....i will try to support my self to go on live...
now maybe he go away and dont come back is better for me,
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niña
16 yrs ago
yes.you are right iwilltry.
i went to his house is a stupidity thing.but i did not think too much thing at that time,i thought just a meet,i thought everyone is good person as my childhood...
i dont wanna see he feeling blue and alone when i contacted me,
i just could not refused.maybe i am too young,in my mind the love is white and very romantic,so i didnt pay attention for smt btween man and woman.example sex or others.
i m lucky.he didnt hurt me.but my heart get broken now,
thanks
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niña
16 yrs ago
Well.
just 2 time gone out with him,
most of time we are keep touch on phone and internet.
now.i miss these times.i happy and alone;s time...
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niña
16 yrs ago
strawblade..
thanks,
you know everytime i thought my love is precious,and i know im a Cinderella,but someday i can putting on a crystal shoese.
but this time is cheap.huh.i hate such a myself,
i need time to cure my heart.now i know dont be curious for love and dont be fast to like someone.the story of Cinderella is unpractical in the real world...
easy talk hard to do......
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CSZR
16 yrs ago
I understand u very well. I am in a same situation at present. I love the guy and we have 5 meetings in these three months.(he is very bz). Same here, he want to sex with me from second meeting, but i refused again and again. So ,we were sad after our meeting. When i leaved him, i miss him very much and chase him. I hope we can be together happy and comfortable. However ,everything goes to the wrong place. The last time, we met and crazy kiss. At key point, i did not let it go on. I known we will sex just stop it. I made him angry. I should not stop it at a very enjoy time. We did not contact again for a week. At last, i can not control my feeling to him. I decide to be his sweetie and told him. Sure, he accept it. The important reason that I made this amazing decision is that I need his crazy to me and need wonderful sex life. Am i right? I do not know what i am doing now. In fact, i am a traditional girl, i can not make a love with a man who do not love me. But A man can have many women, why can not our women! The only thing I am afraid is that no marriage only sex will lead me to a big sad at last and is it bad for women’s healthy if we sex with two men at same time. I have a bf but he can not meet my sex very well.
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niña
16 yrs ago
CSZR
im sorry heard this.now i know not just i am unlucky in the world.why we were hurt ourself? we need to be stronger.and no body can hurt us.i hope you can live well.
have a sentence time is a good medicine for pain..
now i just slowly come back to myself life,everyday work,sometime go to club with friend,if get spare money.should go to some training center and travel.
well...see...we can living on without them.
but i m not against that he gave me a big dream for love,.but one day the dream will broke,then we should go back to truly...
everyday tell meself:"just give me time,i can do anything."..
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niña
16 yrs ago
Beancurd,
yes.it's a big trouble.
he said too much sweets words to me.maybe just cause i am young girl and cheat me is easy...
in the wrong place met a wrong man and did wrong thing........
i just dont know what he want,i told him unless i m sure he love me,then we can have sex,if im not sure,then we cant do anything,he agree with me,and every time he tried to have sex with me,and after i refused him,he dont angry with me..
maybe he is a good player who have such patient.......
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Nina
I hate to say this to you. But by your own admission you are young. I am also guessing inexperienced with men.
What you are feeling is not really love. You have a wild passionate feeling for a man you like but do not know. I guess it could be called a serious crush. After only two meetings.
I can predict the most possible scenario. He has sex with you, then goes home to America. You are left heartbroken and spend the next 2 years calling and emailing him before you get the message that you have been used.
Do your self a big favour and walk away.
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niña
16 yrs ago
tigerbay..
sometimes i believe in fall in love at first sight.and when we talked he really is a good person,he is oldder than me 14 yeas...
i relly confused,i dont know what he think,.so,maybe he play with me,maybe not,he told me will come back in 2 weeks,but who knows.
maybe i should give up.just need time........
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Since he is older and more experienced...just walk away from it and think that you just dodged a bullet.
Don't go after him. Although you havent slept together, he has already tried to take advantage of you. That says a lot about his character. You're better off without him.
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niña
16 yrs ago
well.
thanks....
he called me wanna meet me last....
he will leave 5-may.....
dont know what i can to do...totally confused.....
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Nina, I agree that you should walk away from him for the following reasons:-
1) You are inexperienced and he is 14 years older. A man who sincerely loves you would put you on a pedestal and will make you feel special, NOT like this
2) He is LEAVING. How are you going to carry on with the relationship? He is probably NOT interested in a relationship, ONLY in sex. Why don't you let him go and see if he comes back for you? I don't mean, via emails or internet.. but would he travel the distance to see you after he's gone?
3) He just sends you off everytime you meet and doesn't call. He tells you he is always busy... I mean, what do those things tell you?
4) I think your instincts are telling you that he is NOT genuine in this relationship. Trust it.
Don't have sex with him. Find someone who deserves you.
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niña
16 yrs ago
thanks.i know maybe i was wrong,
but my heart cant give up...this is my first love,why get such a finaly.
maybe i should refused his invite this weekend,and if he really love me,he will find me and tell me something,is not i find him always,yes,
it is,i should refuesed him.....................
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I think this is a case of your heart overruling what your head tells you to do. I understand that having been through that myself a long time ago (goodness, I feel so old now) ;-)
But ask yourself this.. what will you achieve from this relationship? Is he leaving? YES. Is he really SHOWING you he loves you? NO.
The strongest thing you can do for yourself to AVOID hurting yourself or feeling dumb or low if you succumb to sex is to leave this relationship QUICKLY.
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niña
16 yrs ago
man is a riddle...
cant understand,maybe this is a lesson for me in ther love's way....
should i learn something,otherwise i am really stupid.
now i think just let he go away,and i should living on without him.
im a traditional girl.then i cant have sex without love...
im lucky he never force me to do anything,that;s reason,i think he not play me,
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niña
16 yrs ago
well.
itl;s hard to say bey for me,
i know easy talk hard to do....
the day after tomorrow the holiday coming,maybe should go out let my head rest..
oh..this is not love?but i felt that i like him so much once....
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