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jwm
17 yrs ago
What makes him always busy? Does he work a large amount of hours? or is he oing out with his buddies at nihgt and leaving you home?
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jwm
17 yrs ago
I agree with Little C, it's his job, that most likely pays for the dinners that you hopefuly get from him every now and then. If his job is going to be a relationship inhibitor for you, then do yourselves both a favor and move on to someone who works less.
just out of curosity, on an average weekly, how much time DO you see him?
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Maybe part of the problem is also that you're always available when he wants you. By making myself unavailable to my boyfriend, he soon started asking to see me a bit more often. The next time he calls, have plans so you can't see him. He'll notice something is up and he'll have to start making time for you.
Geeze, I mean, how long are you sposed to wait for a guy? Is he that great that you don't even get to see him once a month? Don't you deserve a guy who's able to lavish attention on you?
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Relationships are the most important thing in life. It sounds as though there is a very significant mismatch between the two people's view of the relationship.
Earning a living is important, but it is only the means to an end. The end is a happy life, based upon happy relationships, with partner, and, hopefully, children.
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Little Carmen,
Where do you get joy and happiness from, if not from relationships?
Friends, family, workmates, and, ideally, a soulmate.......good relationships can be better than anything you can buy, and will give real joy and happiness.
If relationships are not the most important thing in your life, then I would say you are not as happy as you could be.
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I was going to ask how long have you been together, cos if he's too busy to see you and you've only started going out, then maybe he's not that into you and treating you as just a FB. If you've been together for 3-4 years and he's doing this, depends on if he's always been like this or if he's just started being "busy". If it's the latter, either he's genuinely busy or he's using work as an excuse not to see you. Sorry to sound harsh, but that's just the fact of relationships. You need to keep yourself busy and not worry about what he's doing. Make your own plans and don't break them just because he calls at the last minute and wants to see you. That doesn't say to a guy that he's special and you're making time for him, that says you're a door mat and you're at his beck and call 24/7. Make yourself a priority and he will see that he needs to make advance plans if he wants to spend time with you. Good luck!
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Well I think both parties need to be happy and satisfied in a relationship and clearly, your needs are not being met by him. It's nice that you give him credit, and it does sound like he tries, but to be honest, if he knows your needs are not being met and still doesn't have time for you, then you've got to question the future. No one is THAT busy and if you don't put yourself first, he never will.
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I just read the oringinal post and I will say: see the reaction by telling him that you wanna have a baby.
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