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lulu
19 yrs ago
Isn't it sad that you really like someone but he did not find you that interesting, then you met his girlfriend, who is nothing special... Even someone you fancied a long time...after he divorced, but he still not pick you.
However, there is someone you really hate/ annoyed but they are those who keep talking to you...but you still chat to them cos we all lonely sometimes.
Pathetic.
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Not really pathetic, just heart broken. and the mind will keep repeating "why her?....isnt' me much much better than she is?!"....
Overdoing on that one will make people mad. :s
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Yes it is pathetic- comparing yourself to another woman is selling yourself short. So he isn't interested in you, move on and find someone new.
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lulu
19 yrs ago
Why women always have to move on and i seldom hear men need to move on?? we always seems to have to wait for the men to choose us...sad right...
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oh no - not when you're depressed. Those little babies have enough on their plates already.
pick yourself up, stop whining about men not liking you, cheer up and then go offer that warmth to kids in need.
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lulu
19 yrs ago
i did some charity work, but not babies one. Sorry i cannot manage babies! :)
Thanks for the advice, but i think i really like that guy. Think its "because you cannot have it, you want it" theory.
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In general guys like positive thinking girls.
it is all in your mind if you like to accept those silly thoughts like "want it cos you cant have it"
u know why his woman is not special ? because he is just a normal guy ! Only in your mind that he is special and she is not worth for me.
Anyway, use your woman charm to get him - if it works you get your dream come true. If he doesn't feel the same then be friends and move on.
If you have already tried that then move on. Look for your man like others advised you.
I share with you my experience - I can't get guys at all when I was sentimental and low confidence.
Throughout the years I grow older but I built self confidence, positive and I started to get whoever I like.
Then the issue is - guys are not as special as they appear, they are just MAN, no SUPERMAN. Better to know a guy more before falling in love.
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lulu
19 yrs ago
Nemesis> I am not saying i am not taking advices, but actually i think I know all these advices and so as a lot of us. But somehow it is just easy said than done. Actually i am not looking anything particular from the forum, somehow i just want to share and see how many people feel the same sometime, some kind of sympathy. I know at the end nothing can change and we need to move on.
I am not too happy so i just wanna chat somehow. I know at the end no one can help except myself. Time can help.
easygoing> I agreed.
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lulu
19 yrs ago
Doesnt matter. he does say he like me too but god knows what "like" means...may be he "like" to keep the unreveal relationship we are having, or he feel compliment that someone fancy him, or he do not want any hassle to think about his present relationship cos i never really tell him. Leave it, i am not too bother about that anymore.
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lulu
19 yrs ago
I dunno whether "he is that into me", cos i never tell him i really like him too and guys never want to do anything except they been forced to.
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lulu
19 yrs ago
well i dunno, i am a bit tired to find out cos i think i am just simply loser..move on and live.
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lulu
19 yrs ago
well cos i always leave before racing. I just kinda of feeling down today but i think i still got other friends and work in my life, just a bit down during days when i am on leave and in Hong kong...
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lulu
19 yrs ago
nah, I dont eat much while i watch movies, i think the best thing is still pop corn...
JC> i did have a lot of plans, and most of them work if it only involve myself. :) I am not that bad but somehow may be sometime we need some tender love and care from opposite sex, occasionally but i have none and I do not have to have that from those i am not keen on.
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Justin Credible: I'd have to add a 'Rabbit' to the list of needs ;-)
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Ha! A 'Rabbit' is indeed an essential item.
Lulu - I understand that your are feeling a bit fed-up because you like this guy. However, it is clear that he has no intention of having a relationship with you. And why should he?? You are so smitten with him and critical of his girlfriend - all he sees is a desperate woman. Desperation is a very unattractive trait.
Everyone on this thread has told you to get off your arse and stop feeling sorry for yourself. This is good advice.
If you don't want to do charity work, then join a club or do something that will bring you into contact with other people. Get busy and get out there.
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lulu
19 yrs ago
Vulvic> actually i never comment his girlfriend in front of him, i did not show any desperations as well. I think i am too subtle but finally last Friday i told him i like him, he say he like me too but then i feel relief about that and i appreciate his answer, sometime it better this way.
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Nice, I am glad to hear that you did it !
Telling a guy that you like him but without giving him pressure is a strategice act.
The important matter is that you feel relief of not missing opportunity. And you never know what the outcome can be - I went to see Leonardo's Last Super in Milan - the rule is a visitor has to book 1 week in advance to see it. Everyone told me so and one day I was just in the next block from the venue - so I walked over and tried my luck - I asked and I got to see it right away !
The happy thing is that I tried and even if they don't allow, I have nothing to lose and I won't be thinking about - I wish I had tried to ask that time.
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lulu
19 yrs ago
well, then even i think i like him, i do not think he will leave me for his girlfriend. I am not even 2nd choice, not sure why, i am not harding working enough to confront it or they all think i am not seriously fighting for them?
i really dunno how to play games.
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Wow, what a deal! Well, what r u waiting for...kekeke
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