Posted by
lulu
19 yrs ago
I am not sure why, i saw many guys cheat when they are married or attached...but i seldom hear women do. Personally, I cannot. I went with my ex boyfriend for 10 years. I did attracted to some other guys but i never cheat on him, and of course not sleeping with that guy. But then he cheated and i left.
Now i am single and i'd been meeting so many guys that attached or married ones want ot have extra girlfriends and so on. Why? What is their rationale behind? Will men always like to have some extras on their relationship? And the worst thing they always treat me as an extra too, am I destined to be the 2nd second...3rd choice...
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lulu
19 yrs ago
JC> i know there are still a lot of happy couples around, but i just like some to hear more stories from others, just to hear and share people's thought and experiences.
i am not asking advices anymore. To be honest, there is nothing you guys can do, even i dun want to deal with my problems anymore. Just to share dear, not advices nor help cos i know no one can help me on anything.
I never a saint anyway. I dun blame men, cos there is always supply and demand!
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lulu
19 yrs ago
.... > totally agreed.
Think men are not as good liars as women, and even sometime my closest girlfriends i know, they will not tell me they cheated , even they do. Do they want face or they are really faithful, I am not sure.
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lulu
19 yrs ago
so whatever whatever...are you a man or woman? wonder why my friends never cheated...are they boring people or whatever...do they have a certain type that likes to cheat?
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lulu
19 yrs ago
Steath Bomber> are you a lady? I might be conservative but i have no idea of knowing any chinese/local women cheat, are most cases you guys mentioned are western or non local ones??
Or chinese local women keep it so discreet they dun even tell their friends?
I only know some women left their hubby as they cannot stand their husband cheat and look for prositutes (so many times), i also know some women take it casually even they know their hubby cheated, they pretend they dunno.
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lulu
19 yrs ago
JC> i heard about chinese women have affairs too, but not often. I heard once but this was from my ex boyfriend, his colleague had an affair and only want to discuss with him. Is that mean women like to talk this thing to men instead of women ?
I am not living in Lala land, i live in HK island, i think is it better to stop attacking and make comments on other people at the forum?
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lulu
19 yrs ago
Alright, alright, i did not have any men to cheat, just asking how people are like, cos i like to hear how people are these days. I did not say anything about i have no men or loneliness in this topic ...
JC> you putting a "name" on someone whenever they have a topic, it will be difficult for us to discuss anything anymore, or you need people to change their handle so you feel better?
Geeez.Gimme a break.
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Ed
19 yrs ago
No idea as I dont recall your post - I wiped out a bunch on this channel because they involved a man who was infiltrating the womens forum... so if you replied to him you'd be deleted....
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