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AOP1JF
19 yrs ago
i feel so sad for you cos you are so right 'he is a pig'...he probably did reallly like or even love you but not enough cos for him money obviously talks. Mate he's a user, he's cheap and he's a pig...i know that dont help you much cos you are obviously very into him...remember one thing my friend...what we cant have we want more ! Dont llet him know that you still want him and move on ...there are plenty of better men thaan this out there. Please please dont ever think you have a future as you deserve so much better. Imagine if say she left and he got you...what happens when another rich bitch comes long that he fancies? he would dump you like a ton of sh*t and never look back! It doesnt matter how much you think you'll be able to make him love you and it doesnt matter how beautiful you are etc etc etc ...this man is a pig and there are plenty out there who will treat you well. stuff him my friend!!!!
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yeh tutti is right as always...this works a treat...tis what im doing with my ex now...last time he called i answered and apologised for all the tears and heartbreaking sadness...i told him that i needed to get a grip as things were not that bad and it wasnt the end of the world. I also told him that i hoped him and his new love would be very happy as they were obviously meant for each other. Serious mate the sweeter i am the more he wants me and now for me that means the less i want him! She can have him and all he's worth as some day soon i know i will find a man who is ten times better than he'll ever be! Hold onto the thought that you deserve better and are worth his weight in gold and you wont go far wrong! Talk to him but first get your head around the fact that he is so bad for you and he is a pig and then when you talk to him treat him like an acquantance. I promise you when you have control of the situation your gunna feel a whole lot better...please dont let him see your weakness for him...thats where i was going so wrong!
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lulu
19 yrs ago
Well, let's look at the other way, you should feel sorry for him cos he need to bend for her money, at least you do not need to, being with someone you dun fancy is not easy! You should feel happy.
Anyway, i never want to fight with other women, cos i might find out even if his gf left him, he might have some other candidate other than ME!
That's hurts even more.
I feel so heart-broken ....
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lulu
19 yrs ago
well, sometime even the person you married, might not be the one you loved most!
Women do knows if their other half having affairs, but some of them like to choose to ignore and feel at least thay are at the No.1...(at least for the time being!)
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but manicair the only reason that you were friends before all this is because you didnt know what a twat he was...please come on girl say **** it to him and her.... if she knows what he's into then great..if she doesnt then thats great too at the end of the day it should be sod all to do with you as we have all said and i will say again he's a pig and your better just staying well away.
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lulu
19 yrs ago
it never easy...take care. x
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course you will manicair and i can promise you that someone will be ten times more special than this bloke who deserves nothing more than a false how are you! chin up girlie and remember your better than him
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19 yrs ago
He is a dickhead!(sorry) How can he put money over happiness? I know i am a bit harsh but this is a weakness of character and would only have caused you more grief had you stayed together. It is lucky you found out when you did, even if hurtful at the time.
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Manicar do you realise that this guy is making a f* fool of you? come on girl get a grip 'he walked past twice' i pray to god that he didnt see you longing after him though i would be very surprised if he hadnt. This is a terrible state of affairs girl please. I cant even say anymore about it. I was feeling sad and sorry for you at the beginning of this thread but now im just angry cos he is making a mockery of you and you are letting him. Can you just imagine what he is telling his mate! Im not writing anymore on here ....i quit this thread completely. get off it too girl go and find him and tell him that you dont mind his situation and you will be his hoar.
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im saying move on mate..hes a prick
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i have to agree with Nemisis (lol of course) on this point but it aint cos i was the 'real GF' im sure i would have been the same before. If i was with a guy and he told me he already had a GF i'd beat him. When i found out my man had cheated on me I did exactly what my instincts told me to do slapped his face and punched the hell out of him...telling him he was welcome to hit me back (though he didnt dare) This bloke you were with cheated on you too and didnt deserve another moment of your time. I must confess though that after i found out i was still in two minds and continued to have sex with him for a while. The situation was a bit different and very F* up ( i see this now) as my head was telling me to F* him but my heart told me i loved him and could forgive.......durrrrrrrrr what an arse i was!
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