Posted by
lammasita
19 yrs ago
Excellent!
A little honesty at last - I like it!
I think that's the problem.... in this little pond where a lot of people can feel and indeed be a 'big fish', lasting relationships, monogamy and marriage just don't exist in the way they do in larger towns... so you are right, it is ridiculous to expect what cannot be found.
However, each are allowed to vent their frustration of such problem if they feel like it... it does go on a bit. However, it has been a bit like therapy for me... I love one night stands but was feeling a little 'whorish'... now I feel like I have simply gone with the flow over here!!! So in 6 months time I am leaving for a more stable, realistic country where those things missing from here can be found and hopefully with time, I too shall find the right bloke who doesn't have such a wonderful choice of temptation around him 24/7
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lulu
19 yrs ago
That means "wake up and smell the coffee, face the fact" hahaha
Hey shizz> dun genersalise Asian girls or western women...I also understand some asian women sleeps with western guys for a life style...they just keep hitting until they got one they can trap...and then if they cannot get it, they whine over the net and everywhere. It is fairplay, you can whine they raped you as well ! :)
No worries, i dun mind to get into a "one night thing" with a guy if i really get too drunk n horny, as if this is great fun, both parties got a good time, why not? but i seldom do one night cos they always coming back for more which i dun want! lol
Somehow, what i dun like about is white men always think we desperate to have sex with them cos they are good in bed. And most of them are crap! Nothing with the size , it just their skills and their respect on enjoying sex on both parties. Sex is ok, but dun treat girls like a free hooker... that will make them feel better.
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Amen to your words JC!!! The plan is to go - but I want to have as much fun as I can before then!! (That includes home cooked dinners from you!!)
Lulu! - I have a solution for you! I don't have a problem with them coming back for more because I don't give them my number!!! Simple!
(I just want to state for the 'open' record - I am not 'whorish' as I don't go out that much(!), but when i do, I often get the chance from some guy with the gift of the gab and it's so hard to refuse!!! I see through them and simply enjoy the compliments for the evening - it makes life a lot more 'do-able' here in Honkers!)
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lulu
19 yrs ago
sozy, lama, I mislead that. I dun think i ever did one night stand. These guys i usually talk for a while and they do know my number. What i think my case is more like "sex on the first date" kinda thang.
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lulu
19 yrs ago
no lah, i never say ALL white, gewilo, expat are like that, and of course not ALL asian girls are like that what "My name" has mentioned, thou there are a lot, but at least i am not. :)
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Finally , some of you blokes have wised up to the fact that some of the Asian babes you sport on your arm are after your wallet, not your heart. And before I get a barrage of posts - I said SOME.
Actually I witnessed a very entertaining vignette whilst waiting for a taxi last night. A young, attractive couple: him, English. Her, HK Chinese. They were having a row which made it rather hard for me not to hear what they were saying. The basic gist was that they had been to her parents house every night this week. He wanted to go home a chill out before cracking on with some big project he had to hand in. She wanted to go to her folks and do the dutiful daughter bit with her bloke. He said 'no', she sulked, he relented.
I couldn't resist, I had to give him a look that said 'pitiful'.
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Yup, it is true whatever stated here but c'est la vie! Think about it, the whole scenario is a win-win situation (if you know what I mean). Though we complained like nobody business but the stories keep repeating. Either she learnt the lesson or not. Welcome to the real world!
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Ultraseven - That's quite a commute from HK to NY.
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Don't know why - you are not really typical of Asian women though. Ultraseven does have a point.
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Don't Know Why - great post and you are absolutely right, sounds as if his mother was also a bigot. Sadly I think this can be said of a lot of parents from a certain generation.
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MC
19 yrs ago
MyName, I am Chinese and my husband is American. Known and been married for a very long time. Had our problems, but nevertheless.. Here is my take. Some Asian girls are after money or a passport (probably no longer the case). However, Asian girls generally, when entering a relationship, have marriage in mind. Westerners, on the other hand, tend to "test" and then decide which has its own merits. When my husband and I started dating, I told him plainly at the very beginnign that I wanted to get married, not just playing around. Whether he married me or I married him or anyone else, time would tell, but he had to want to get married. I know plenty of people who dated girls forever knowing that they would never marry the girls. Women generally have less time to waste. Having said that, the best course of action for the girls you mentioned is to find out if the guy is just playing or playing seriously and this applies to both Asian and non-Asian men.
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MC
19 yrs ago
Cultural differences definitely exist... However, a lot of the bitching from men and women come from a lack of communication... If both sides state their objective, then a lot of this could be avoided. Of course, it takes some of the mystery and romance out of the whole thing. But so what... beats bitching and broken hearts
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Posh
19 yrs ago
BenDing. U do think so?? well...i dont think all local girls take relationships like this! and speaking to the "faster emotionally...." God! ths fact is totally something others!
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To All Stupid Asian/HK Chicks:
Stop being naive or cheap to throw yourself to those westerners/foreigners. People can be mean/cheap/poor/low-classed regardless of nationality, including those westerners! Be smarter and have your own class! When I was in LKF, I saw those HK chicks looked so arrogant, as they thought they were sooo cool being with a western dude. I just laughed at their stupid arrogance.
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Posh
19 yrs ago
it isnt a question about nationalities,but about people. we dont need to check their ID or passport before falling love, do we? so i have to say the key is perhaps sometimes just your luck! u meet someone wrong,then SORRY about it,leave him and find someone new. but you cannot say "just bcoz he is a westerner!"
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