my boyfriend , a quite nice man , we have been together for one yr , we love each other , but we find now so hard to communicate, the problem is he is always afraid to loose me ,afraid that i dont love him , so he become so sensitive about what i say , even a joke can make him so upset , then a fight follows , it is also hard for him to accept when my girlfriends and me talk about other boys ,or i look at other boy when we walk on the street , , it makes me so tired to face him , because if i say something wrong he will become so sad or angry , all these happen is just because he love me . i become not like talk with him , try to avoid to talk with him , but it still hurt him so much , it also hurt me . this is a kind of love that you want drop but you still love ,what can i do ???
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I'm just wondering if he behaved this way also during the year you've been together or just recently?
Otherwise, I believe, there's no smoke without fire.
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I'd like to know what 'Chinesekkk' means.
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Hi Chinesesekk, well I think he is too close with you which cause no space for each other.
This will really mess up as even you getr married with him you have your own circle and he also have his own circle.
This type of circle needs to be there.
Of course you both have a cicle of trust between each other.
I think he really not know what type of girl you are because he must know when you are making a jokes or not.
My comments for you would be that if you do not have the circle of trust it would mess up.
Talk to him really seriously and you need to solveed before it getting worse.
Regards,
Victor
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I have similar story, except that this girl-friend of mine, already left the relationship....she used to complaint just about same...and most of us, tried to convince her that maybe the guy is who he is and that ecceptance is very important for him. After sometime, she complaint more about him being too possessive and she regreted to have accepted him, as she was never square like him and have had different teenage adult life...She is much a happier person now going out with someone who she accepts, respects and love him, and its reciprocated on same level...
I think those are the signs that you will have to consider living with its better to decide now then having to live in denial for the rest of your life.
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thanks viccheng23, you are right , the space between a couple is too important , it makes a relationship longer .
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to wildorchid , i fhind this problem sice the first month that I knew him , but usually when people fall in love , the ignore all the things . except this problem , he is a really nice man.
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