Recent threads [and not so recent ones] have me wondering—
How many of you have cheated, been discovered, and had the partner leave immediately?
How many of you have cheated, bee discovered, and had the partner NOT leave immediately [whether or not it was the core of the Ultimate and eventual downfall]?
Now, let's do gender—
Guys—found out and the woman stayed?
Gals—found out and the guy stayed?
How many of us can be honest enough to answer this one?
KB
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And... I'll go first:
I (female) cheated, it ended, bf discovered history... stayed b/c it was over and I wanted to stay with the bf ["learned my lesson"]
[Different bf] He cheated, I discovered; he "ended it" so I stayed. Then I discovered it wasn't over... he ended it in the confrontation.
And, in the more-than-I-planned-to-say category:
Husband, working in Asia while I was living in North America, cheated. I discovered positively, after ½ a year of denials, and he couldn't decide what to do. I wanted to work it out or at least be available to work on it; moved with our 2 children to Asia an hour away from him. He tried to force ME to file for divorce… I wouldn't capitulate [I decided he was going to take a stand] so I ended up being legally married and effectively single [and non-dating] for Four Years.
Now, I'm divorced, still in Asia—and love it here BTW—but having a bit o'trouble finding guys to date.
KB
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lulu
19 yrs ago
me, female,got a boyfriend for nearly 10 years, he cheated, i found out. i left him that minute.
then another boyfriend, nearly 2 years, found out he got another girl in his room, not sure they have sex, but fed up, so leave him.
recently met a guy, have a girlfriend for 5 years, she found out and she use the guy`s phone to text me and ask me to leave. Now i still contact the guy and waiting for his girlfriend leaves...which is pretty impossible...hahahah
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shaq
19 yrs ago
I, male, had a girl who cheated. I didn't leave her becoz she apologized. We continue to 'roll'
for some years before she decided to get married to s'one from her race; which I totally understood.
I guess we should also think about why people cheat. Unsatisfying relationship? ... definitely.
I've no girlfriend now. If I 'roll' with a girl now, would it be cheating myself??
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I've only ever cheated once when I was 17. Felt like a real cow when I had to tell my then b/f and decided then that I didn't want to treat someone like that again.
To my knowledge I haven't been cheated on, guess there's no way of knowing for sure, but I believe the men in my life were honest.
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Can't understand people who do it repeatedly though. It shows a total lack of respect for the other person and for themselves.
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Well I get a kick out of champagne, lol!
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