I responded for his AD at this website. Maybe I really was lonely after my boyfriend went to abroad studying two years ago. Maybe I was so tired about my study. Maybe I was curious after getting this website from our professor…….
I still felt so sad talking about this story. Maybe because I still was so young in mind, I couldn’t understand love. One thing I still couldn’t understand. Do your foreigners all think Chinese girls are trying to get something from you? Chinese girls have right to love and be loved. Why question about their love? Why still trying to find a girl in China, if you don’t want to spend the rest of your life with a Chinese girl? Why dating different girls at the same time? ……
Anyway, after a year’s hard work, I got full scholarship and studying in USA now. Sometimes I still think about what happened in those days. I couldn’t deny that I wasn’t perfect. But I still remember that at that time every minute once I realized I liked him more, I felt more heartbroken. I know that there was no future between us which make me so uneasy ……
So don’t hurt them any more. Some Chinese girls are worth being loved. Choose them and love them.
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Poor Rebecca9999, don't get upset, like you said, ur still young, you'll meet plenty of men and at the same time, a guy needs to meet different women to find the right one, everyone is searching. Most importantly, you get to learn what you want and how to love yourself before you are thinking of giving youself away. Each breakup will bring heartache, but there is always pleasure, maturity and experience that you gain from the people you met as well as the relationship you once had. Never hate yourself or the guys who left you heartbroken because in the end of the day, you have shared some of the most precious moments in your life and they form the memories you'll look back one day and turn the person who you become.
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actually, i've been with both Chinese / western guys, this is only from my experience - Chinese guys are much worse when it comes to staying committed but i can't generalize anyway.
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My wife is Chinese, but far from a young girl. I love her to bits, and she keeps me in line.
But I am here to live, I am not just passing through.
I live in Shanghai and the behaviour of some of the girls is outrageous. But for every girl that gets herself noticed, there are another thousand who live quietly and respectably.
Same is true of expats you go to some bars, and you smell all sorts of exotic herbal cigarettes, you go to others full of bar girls. It is difficult for a regular guy to go out just for a beer. So don't judge all expats by the ones you see or meet in a bar.
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i think it all comes down to different expections and definitions of relationships. i don't want to generalize but i know a lot of chinese girls think being in a relationship with someone means they'll spend the rest of their life with that person, should nothing go wrong. they expect it to lead to marriage. when both parties set out on different grounds, i.e. chinese girl marriage minded, western man simply wanting to enjoy a relationship, problems are bound to occur.
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i've met some chinese girls that wouldn't go out with guys if they don't see the possibility of marriage... : P
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Thank you all. Space-dust, Your words inlightened me. Maybe I still couldn't forget him and still love him deeply. He tried to invite me out after I ended the relationship. I was so scared to see him because I knew I couldn't control myself to love him. So I refused him again and again......Maybe he was the first man in my life, So...... I will move on......
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Apparently it's Singaporean girls aswell. Damn those foreign men!
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Perhaps the authorities should publish a pamphlet warning the fair maidens of your tricks and lies.
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Errm........
'Maidens - Protect your delicate flower from the imperialist defilers'
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Abstinence is the new Sex
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Okay; but 2 western ladies at the same time would be way too much trouble.
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You just met the wrong guy. And you knew that he was the wrong guy and still let it happen. That's it. Just a learning pain of growing up. Not a big deal. Just remember, the next one is always better. Cheer.
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Kek
18 yrs ago
And a lot of my foreign friends have been with very bad chinese women.However,I've been with a chinese girl for 9 years and the best decision I've made.I've been with tricky women from my own country.So the conclusion is that you can't generalise.Each is individual.
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I think a lot of the foreigners who live in China are just playing with we girls all the time,maybe 70% of them are playboys, but if you go to the west, the chance for you to meet good guys will be much better.
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matter of personality, we just meet the wrong person, sorry.
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