Posted by
zen88
19 yrs ago
Am I being over reacted? A gal who slept with my bf bfore asked to rent the room @ my place. She asked him and he said he doesn't think this is a good idea. I bumped into this gal a couple of days later, she told me tat itz very inconvinient for her to go to work from her current place n she has been wanting to move out for long. But the fact is, my place is 2 bus stops further down from her place...
And now she is planning to move in with some other friends to a house very very close to my place. I feel very uncomfortable about it. I don't know what's on her mind. Am I being too sensitive?
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Ed
19 yrs ago
Moved to relationship forum
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Of course you're not. Heck, even your own bf doesn't think it's a good idea. This gal is obviously up to no good. But you don't really have much of a choice except to trust your bf and keep your communication channels open especially on this issue.
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shaq
19 yrs ago
One cannot be be over-sensitive when it comes to these issues. But it's also important to note that, if this ex-gf would like to seduce your bf (her ex-bf), she could do it from afar as well (considering the size of Singapore; how big is it, anyway?). Your bf just have to be strongly discipline in his commitment to you.
That said, I'll say keep your eyes open. Perhaps, they've been 'doing it' already, hence her desire for proximity..... I've witnessed a case like that before.
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I doubt the girl is a bunny boiler, just insensitive. Probably only thinking of her inconvenience/convenience.
Probably just an opportunist pain in the butt.
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How long was he seeing this girl for ??
She sounds like a bit of a fruitloop to me, why she would ask to move into a flat with your and yr b/f is beyond me. She sounds like she is up to no good.
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Yes you could be right Miss P. But if that is the case, why is this bunny boiler asking her b/f if she can live in HER flat.
The plot thickens.......
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evohe
19 yrs ago
Zen88 : you are not over reacting. This girl is mental. Tell her to f** off. She is a trouble maker. It could be that she need to move closer to her office, then no worries. Or that she want to turn your life into hell by shaking your confidence. Just agree that you and your bf simply ignore her calls and give her a cold shoulder if she seems over eager. But trust your bf. He probably ditched her and she could be trying to have a revenge by ruining his couple. Still this is very far fetched and people who have such energy should go to an asylum.
More probably she is a massive insensitive bitch.
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Or move away..... but me thinks that's a little extreme!
I liked what the bear said about forewarning your bf that you may be a little sensitive about it!! At least if anything happens he'll understand when you rip her hair out!!
Good luck! xx
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I was stalked for 2.5 years by a bunny boiler. God girls i have to tell you the story one day...it sounds funny but was not....
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The girl's moving is out of your control. So try to contol what is in your hands which could be your self-confidence, your trust in your boyfriend, your relationship with your boy friend, just to name a few.
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