Ever asked him how he looks at a relationship? How fond is he of you?
How much do you long him?
Ask him and yourself these questions, and see if it's worth to be his temporary girlfriend or to stick with your values.
Please bear in mind that everybody has a past, foreign or local people.
The past or the truth is not always the ideal story to hear, but learn how to deal with it as it could have happened to anybody (including you), u know.
Cheers,
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You see what I mean?
Why even ask if he is interested in a relationship? He was probably looking for another silly cheap (read=free) bonk from another of the desperate girls who would give and arm and a leg (and more) to be seen in the company of the 'heavenly' caucasian man.
Give yourself a reality check. if he was a regular local man you met on a blind date, who has a regular sex partner, would you consider dating him?
No?
Good.
The end.
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shaq
19 yrs ago
Hahaha.... Good advise up there.
I think rational reasoning should be the guideline of our dear sister! Really, there is no complications here. Do you wanna play or be played? If you mean to be in a real and satisfying relationship, get real and look for a serious/committed minded guy. Believe me, they/we're everywhere :-). Except where a real and satisfying relationship for you is the one you've described .... Hmmmm!!!.... Damn, I'm talking too much.. :D.
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the problem is the 'deer in headlights' phenomenon which prevents rational thinking.
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Sounds like another self-abuser to me.
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lulu
19 yrs ago
well I talk to a guy which is not bad looking as well and he is australian.(May be the same guy!) He told me he have sleeping buddies, so by that time, i stop talking to him. Not being blunt, but if he want to have you as his girlfriend, he will dump these partners without telling you. but if he is telling you that, it means he would like you to be sex partner number 2, or #3. If you can bear it , take it. If you cannot, stop seeing or even talking to him, that helps.
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after school? I mean have you just finished class..??
I would say leave it for all the reasons that are mentioned about. nobody tells anybody they like their dubious sleeping habits for fear of putting them right off.
He has basically offered that you be in his line of sleeping buddies...
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If you are lonely, go out and do things. Go out and meet people. Dont have to be a doormat for someone else. What makes you think sleeping with him will make you less lonely?
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But he is Australian! (i think that's the real problem)
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I think you got me wrong.
I am saying that the fact that he is Australian (caucasian) that is making someone goo-goo eyed.
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it's monday-sense has taken leave. But just to keep in line with the original story!
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CB - what the hell were you trying to do? It looks like an attempt to resurrect this thread.
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