Aside from bars and nightclubs (which *are* fun every now and again) where is a good place to meet a guy?
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A good place to meet a guy? Or a place to meet a good guy?
Sorry, I know the answer to neither of those questions....and hell, I have looked everywhere...
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lulu
19 yrs ago
good guy = just like dinasour, extinct spieces you can only it in the old photos.
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A friend of mine used to hang around bookstores. I have friends who found their significant others at parties, through friends, supermarkets...everywhere. You meet guys everywhere...question is where to meet the one that is good for you? I cant answer your question because I have not found one.
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shaq
19 yrs ago
There is no such thing as a place to meet good guys but, then again, there're good guys everywhere (much as there are 'bad/fake' ones).
I think that it takes a decerning mind to know who is good or bad. So, one shdn't look at specific places for guys/gals. Instead, one should keep and open mind, give and take chances while being careful, and dug the the gold that he/she deserves. May we wish ourselves good luck in our search. :-)).
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Or divorced, due to the pressures of modern life. There is such a thing as no fault divorce.
I was such a guy and I was a thirty something. I also found myself a very nice thirty something divorced Chinese lady.
Baggage, well yes, kids mortgages etc. but thats normal.
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I've found that really not needing or wanting to meet someone, usually means you do!
Otherwise find a few places that you enjoy going out to and feel comfortable in, then if a 'nice' guy walks in, he'll see you in your best and most beautiful light!! When you're your most natural; know what I mean??
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It is funny how you can smell desparation. And it don't smell good.
Sad coz two people who are 'wanting' can easily repell each other.
Life is perverse sometimes.
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I've found life to be 'perverse' quite often!!
Quite like a child; when you ask them 'not' to do something, they invariably do it!!
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YEP! agreed...you find people when you least expect it...just being your natural self...trying to hard at anything never pays off. It is always seen through by everyone.
I have a friend who said to me once that she stopped seeing her desperate single female friends as they turned quite predatory and desperate. She said it was sad and embarassing....
I never want to be a sad embarrasing woman...someone please have a word to me if I ever seem that way!!
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lulu
19 yrs ago
i know many good guys...they are gay.
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Ahhh... the eternal question. I have to agree with a lot of the advice posted. Nothing is more atractive than a happy, confident woman. Once you start 'looking' you'll only ever meet unsuitable types.
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I'm far from desperate at this point, thanks. :) Actually I was writing only cause I was curious and just wanted to know where others met someone else. ZI am definitely in the camp of being myself, doing what I like to do, and if it happens, it happens.
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Go to Beijing, learn Mandarin at BLCU. Trust me.
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Teenytiny
good point, any adult ed, university FT/PT course is a good place. But linger more demanding courses bring folks closer together as you support each other. You will make new friends and some could be v close. LOL
Its how I met my wife LOL
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You can extend your networking, means that take part in your friends' / colleagues' social events.
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If that's true Shark, you may want to change your handle.
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not sure if twotails is much of an improvement, lol.
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tia
19 yrs ago
Tis true that when looking, it seems you never find. Oh so many cliches I could site at this point...but I will refrain.
Through friends is good. I met my current b/f through a friend? (I question her friendship now, but that is a whole other can of worms) and when I was COMPLETELY not looking for a b/f. Hell, I was on HOLIDAYS. *sigh* Damn LDRs.
I agree with Vulvic that there is nothing better than a woman who is happy and confident with herself to attract a man. If you are not happy with yourself, what makes you think you will be happier with someone else?
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I thought you were after shark bait....but now what you are after if either a question or questionable...
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tia
19 yrs ago
Well, if Canadian men are so fine, why did I leave Canada? ;-) (I joke..I like the men there)
I have seem some FINE FINE scottish men. I am quite partial to Aussies at the moment though.
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Ha Ha TC, I don't like to wear any style dress, and that includes a burqa. And I agree about recognizing the difference between steak and a hamburger. :)
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lulu
19 yrs ago
wow, they delete something really quicky huh..think we are just joking ..not being racist thou. :)
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