Looking for a partner

Hi There


I have been in relationship for 10 years. Broke up about a year and the half ago. I have tried very hard to get over it and I thought it should be easy for me since I am the one who called it off. But I didn't manage to get over it till even today. Turning to 31 this year, age is catching up. Every day seems to be quite miserable, although some days I am optimistic and charged with energy. Tried some of the sites, hoping to make some friends but I learn that it is not so ideal. I am so afraid that I will be going into depression if I continue my current lifestyle. Can anyone of you give me some suggestions of how can I get to know more people of the opposite gender maybe. Do not advise me to take up courses and stuff. I have tried that but it doesnt really help. I love to dance but if I take up dancing class.. I would say half of the class would be man-like-man there.


Do you have any suggestions for me. I would really like to get out of this nutshell.


Your advise would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you.

Hi there!

I saw your post and I thought I should read it, and I realise that I am actually coming across the same problem as you. I have recently moved to Hong Kong and also thought that it would be so easy for me to meet heaps of expats here and to perhaps meet someone nice. However, it seems I was wrong! It is unbelievably difficult to meet any men who are intersted in Western women here.

I know that this does not help you with your situation, and that I am not in Singapore so would not be able to advise you anyhow, but I just thought I would voice how myself and many of my friends are feeling here in HK.

Best of luck!

me,too.

want to have some new friends but can't find good way.

Start with colleagues and then work out from there... it all takes time and good friends don't usually appear over night.


Just be out there so that you can meet others. I found Singapore friendly enough when I went out, same for Hong Kong but everyone talks total bs to get what they want, so it's slightly different...


Anyway, good luck!

thanks all for taking time to read and reply me on it. really appreciate it. some days i just got really down with my mood and ask why girls who snatch others' bfs and husband could end up better than me. i don't even bitch around about other and yet.. just can't meet someone suitable. thank you for your encouragement... i hope my life would change and be better soon. i hope everyone's will too... thank u

Take heart, hun - enjoy the time you have to get to know yourself better. I found that once I did this, I didn't have to go looking...the right man came to me! ;)


My good wishes are with you.