Posted by
space-dust
19 yrs ago
I might be wrong, but I've seen enough of all this rubbish, am not trying to generalize here. Too many times, attached guys send mixed messages to the women and the women got into the emotional trap, when it's time for the guys to make up their minds what they wanna do, they simply don't have the guts to end their current relationship or tell the new girl they met they couldn't move forward with her... Or when a man meets the girl, he has the girl in bed with him then has no guts to tell her he's not that into her... all end up in a mess....
yes we know it takes 2 to tango but often it's becuase the guy simply can't spell the truth as in how they feel...women are cruel but we would be blunt and tell the truth and no messy business..
I am not having above problems now but had the experience in the past and have heard enough of these stories from felmale friends, so guys, WTF?
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Yes, I agree with this so much. I was a victim before. Now I become smarter, dun get too emotionally involved with the guys that you just meet. I think guys are born with this attitude.
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the thing is, many guys don't want to be a bastard so they don't have the guts to end the mess at the same time they can't resist temptation, little do they realize the process of not coming clean only hurts all parties more
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Guys don't want to tell the truth because the math doesn't work out. Why lose your last f#$%mate when you can do your best to avoid that outcome?
Guys aren't saints, but girls aren't angels either! Suffice to say I've seen and met my fair share of gold digging whores in my life.
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Wow, DallasCowboys, did u loose a lot of $$$?
That's a huge accusation, are you sure that you were the innocent person?
Hmmm....doubtful
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hey now, judging from the tone of your voice, i wonder if u were her ;-)
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hey DallaCowboys - the math doesn't work out? so it worths all the mess by not telling the truth?
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It happened to me when I was still single. I was involved with a divorced guy, when everything's turning serious, he suddenly told me that he's back with his wife...
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Synical point of view.
Some guys want their cake and eat it.
And some manage to get away with it for longer than others.
ONS make it easy, and girls who are willing to hop into bed on first date make it easy.
Guys can behave real bad, and some girls make this really easy.
As for men; blame it on the dumb stick. We are weak and led by our c0ck.
Girls, what's your excuse?
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we are ruled by our emotions, biological clocks, male-dominated corporate world plus the fairy tale craps we've been fed into our brains....
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Space
It explains some things, but sis that really why girls do ONS?
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dear - why can't men have ONS and feel for the girls the way girls do???? it lies to the differences between the 2 sexes. Girls also have physical needs, don't you think? but the emotional needs nearly always outweighs the physical desire and thus couldn't let go as easily as the guys...
my original question is targetting at the guys if they really think it's all worth the mess, hassle and pains to all parties for their short term physical pleasure? and when already in a mess, why can't they just tell the truth to end all this mess?
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Chance of second helping of cake.
And often you do get 2nd, 3rd, etc slice.
Also some ppl (M&F) are not good at ending a bad relationship. As one girl who stung me along for two years would say 'never say never'. Translation, she could not say sorry not into you.
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tigerbay - i do see your point, but i am talking about the majority here.... but u know what, i thank you for being one of the only 2 blokes who kindly offered the pov here....
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