Posted by
luvujean
19 yrs ago
Hi
I am tired of taking intiative to meet new people or to find my prince on purpose. I'd rather just stay home and let destiny to bring my man to pick me up. Any reponse would be appreciated.
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shaq
19 yrs ago
Nothing ventured, nothing gained.......; so goes one wise saying.
Until one makes an effort to change a situation, nothing changes, really!! Making a change in one's life or lifestyle doesn't mean desperation. Just that every rational being makes some changes sometimes. So, come on, get out and grab what you so deserve; good friend, partner or whatever you're looking for. There'll be bumpy times along that way, but that's where all the good lesson or life experiences are taken.
SHAQ
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Ed
19 yrs ago
Re: deleted posts and bans.
These forums are not for posting sarcastic replies, profanity or otherwise unconstructive comments - they are for posting advise and answers to questions.
We will (yet again) be reigning in the unacceptable and moving people out of here with bans if they try to take these forums in the wrong direction.
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who was banned? I must have missed something when I was away. The last I checked-nothing wrong with the thread's responses. I recall Justin credible giving a valid, supportive and interesting comment-why is that gone too?
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Actually IMO sarcastic comments ARE constructive criticism seeing that the origial statement can be in itself can be interpreted as sarcastic.
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I don't know why either... we'd better keep quiet... shhhhhh... thx guys for the splendid response anyway :)
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lulu
19 yrs ago
oh being scrastic and giving negative comments..way too often happening...this forum is not sympathic and positive...great to miss out some of the comments actually.
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I missed the fun, so this might have been said.
If what you are doing isn't working, change what you are doing.
Analyse what you were doing, where you were going, how you approached people, what you were wearing, who you were approaching etc.
Write it down. Then decide which you want to try changing each week.
It is easy to think we are doing nothing wrong, but if we are not getting results, then something needs to change.
Nothing special here, just applied common sense.
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I think you should take a break...a break on searching for the right guy...make friends...lots of em,,,but dont go dreaming about them and build hopes on any of them...just enjoy your friendship...hey you might suddenely realise that you are attracted to someone who you never thought you would be...
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All I am saying is..be a nice guy...or a girl...anyone but anyone likes nice people...it creates possitive thinking....makes you healthy emotinally and physically...you end up a happy person. Who wouldn't want to be with a happy person??
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Jean, i am very much like the way you feel. I was working hard to try and find someone a few years ago: Personals, going out, religious group, outings/gathering, chatrooms, etc. Up until 2 years ago, I think I got enough. I am now not bother to make any arrangements, replying emails, texting, phones. Even old people that i met on the net or personals, i am not even bother to meet them again.
I even find it so boring and heavy to go for dinners and dates. I am so fed up to talk to different person the same conversation over and over again about work, life, my history, relationships..and so on.
Moreover, I think falling in love is such a big hassle and burden cos i will fear of losing him or so on. I already prepared to be single for the rest of my life. I do not even have the hope to wait cos i think i am not sure whether it will ever happen. Why disappointment.
Guess i ma tired and i need a break, a long break.
You must think i need a shrink and i done that a few years ago, so i am working on becoming more positive, but i do have friends, good female friends ...but most of them are atached.
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Dear Funnybaby,
No, you don't need a shrink. You just need to know what you want and what you are prepared to give. If what you need is more than what you are prepared to give, you won't get it.
If what you are prepared to give is more than what you need, you might end up feeling resentful.
Balance is everything.
And, yes, to the editor. I think that you are right in cancelling some sarcastic responses as people write in about genuine problems and those who reply in a sarcastic way are mocking people's lives instead of trying to help with genuine compassion.
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Thanks, Susan. I think even there is a single party around the corner, I would not even bother to go. As i think it is hassle to chat and mingle.
Understand i do not want to do much to get anyone, so i prepare to be alone for a while until i get the energy again.
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Ed
19 yrs ago
If we miss anything that should be deleted from the site feel free to email me directly http://www.asiaxpat.com/mediakit/contact.shtm
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Who is "we"? Thought you were the one that says poof!
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