The quest for perfection



ORIGINAL POST
Posted by Vulvic 19 yrs ago
You often find that they are people who are afraid of 'losing control'. When all falls apart in their lives, the one constant is that they can control their bodies: what they eat, how the exercise etc.

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COMMENTS
Vulvic 19 yrs ago
Those that suffer from eating disorders often have a similar desire to maintain 'control'.

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teenytiny 19 yrs ago
I wouldn't call my boyfriend a fitness freak, but he's definitely close to physical perfection; he trains close to everyday and always eats right, but it's his nature.


If you date a 'beautiful' person, they need to not only be physically fit, but emotionally healthy. The only downside is can you handle your partner being so perfect?

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arethusas 19 yrs ago
What I know is, there is no perfection in life. Everything is relative...

The perfect circle you see, may not be perfect for me... as I may complain the size, the color and the thckness of the line that forms the circle...

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Vulvic 19 yrs ago
I agree with JC, all things in moderation. I go to the gym 5 mornings a week with a rugby match on the weekend, I also drink soy milk and consume a ridiculous amount of fruit and veg. Gym/health geek?? Well I would be if it weren't for the Gomorrha-like boozing on Saturday night and the essential Big Mac on Sunday afternoon. Indeed, I am a veritable Jekyll and Hyde when it comes to diet and fitness.


It's the strange people that don't have an 'off' switch to which JC is referring.

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Vulvic 19 yrs ago
I dare not ask what skimpies are!


JC - The Plate Collector - sounds like a new series in Star World, lol.


I'm all for people looking a feeling good but not when they try to impose their habits on you (same goes for religion.) I once dated a guy who, after a few years of hard living in Vietnam, gained a pile of weight. By the time he got to HK, he'd lost it and looked like a reasonabley fit well-adjusted guy. Not so. He refused to have any butter in the house and eventually allowed me to bring a couple of the mini packs of butter so that I could have it on my toast in the morning. Ergo sugar and any remotely snack-like food. As we were spending so much time together, invariabely at his place, I felt like I had been put on a strict diet as all we ever ate was fat-free, fun-free food. One day I rebelled and brought a giant bag of Lays into his flat. He spent the whole time snearing at me and telling me how many empty calories and fat grammes I was consuming. I finished the bag.

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Vulvic 19 yrs ago
So now we have the plate collecter, the bed, bath and beyond collector. Any more?


Actually I have a thing for denim. I did, at one point, own 30 pairs of jeans (most of which I got as freebies through work) and was told I had a problem and had to cull 2/3 of my collection. I am creeping back up to 20 pairs. It's a sickness.

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Vulvic 19 yrs ago
You can laugh, I'm hardened to people's reactions these days, lol!


I live in a wierd fashion universe where it's OK to have 30 pairs of jeans and 10 pairs of flip-flops. I forget that people in the real world only have 3 pairs of jeans.

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