Repeating Story-Cheating Husband

I regret that it is a repeating story of a cheating husband. It just happened to my best girlfriend while she was in the confinement,three years of marriage turns out so unbearable and contemptible for the guy.


She is the most kind, understanding, and generous person that I've met. But it doesn't help her to be resistant from being cheated. The couple contributes financial support to the family very unequally. Since day one, my friend makes all the efforts to help the husband that she basically pays everything for the family. As she is a very successful career woman, thus she will have no problem to live by her own with two kids if they get divorced.


Sadly she still wants him back but not sure if the marriage can be saved. In another hand, we all want her to be strong and prepared for the worst. In case the husband will ask to share community property after they got married, how can she prove and protect the parts that she deserves? On top of that, she saved quite a big sum of money before they married, what will be her legal rights on this?

My advice is don't butt in. It's their lives. Just be a friend if you are needed. Nobody understands what makes relationships tick and your friendship will undoubtedly be the victim if you wade in trying to be the white knight.

Lambada, I know what you mean exactly. We are not trying to give her advice whether she should keep herself stranded in the marriage or not. Neither suggested her to revenge on the cheating guy financially because we all know that's not what she wants.


When she asks us what would happen if he asks to share her property while filing a divorce? I can't just say " Go get a lawyer yourself". We need legal advice and experience here, that's all.