There is someone I have known off and on for a year who,all of a sudden is showing a STRONG interest in me. Wanting us to get together, hang out, do stuff ALL the time. The crazy thing is she is a WOMAN, and I am too, and she is married! She invites me to her place only when her husband is out of town(I haven't gone yet-so nothing has happened). My question to all of you is am i reading too much into this, or is she planning on making a move?
The scary thing is if she did I don't know what I'd do...
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May be she is just bored and need a company and a good friend, and she saw one in you.
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I hope you don't mind me putting in my pennies worth, but it is a known and proven medical fact that woman have more of a tendency to swing both ways. I am not saying that either one of you does. What I am trying to say is that woman feel more comfortable with a close relationship with somebody of the same sex. For example I always see girls/woman holding hands while walking. They are more closer and tend to enjoy spending more time with each other than the MACHO males. To be boring it supposedly comes from the days when we lived in caves and the men went hunting and the women stayed in the caves and kept each other company. I suggest that if you enjoy the company of your friend but are a little bit concerned about what her intentions are, why not state your view on it?? A good example would be to say you read something in a magazine and that your feeling on such a topic are ineterested/ or not interested; what ever the case may be. And watch her reaction. As it would be a real shame to loose the possibility of making a good friend just because of a suspision.
And NO I am not gay, I was just brought up by three sisters so I am a little bit more open minded.
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Have a great time with her afterall we only live Once!!!
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First know what you going to do. If you truly feel that "you don't know what you would do", then I've got news for you, you DO swing both ways so get it over with.
If you really are "not that way", then be an adult. Go to her place, have fun, and if she makes a move, tell her like you would tell a man that "you're not interested in". It is no different.
Sometimes life is simplier than what we think.
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All your insights are good! I am gonna meet up with her tomorrow nite:):( and i'll let you know what evolves.I think I am just going to ask her? monsieur justin credible...you are the funniest person on this site, you are all over the place and always crack me up!thx
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So sfinbeijing, what happened? Were you correct in your assumptions???
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well guys i chickened out, coz she threw a curve ball at me and we hung out WITH HER HUSBAND!!!so i didn't have the opportunity to ask her...
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Me and my friends always meet together and nobody's bf is invited,and we all like that.
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