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SLEE
19 yrs ago
I am a local HK,I met an Australian guy last year when i was traveling around Sydney , we kept calling each other after i came back to HK, he even called me everynight , we had a very sweet and enjoyable conversation and he claimed that he was really serious about this relationship!but after 2 months , he gone..all in a sudden, without any notice/signal,he didn't answer my call/sms/e mails! I was soooooo confuse,I just want to know wht he thinks?Can anybody tell me? I want to start a new relationship but I really can't... he 's still there in my mind...
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lulu
19 yrs ago
sorry, SLEE, he might have an accident( actually better think that way) or he got some other person or he is bored on talking to the phone. Anyway, do you think this gonna work ? Even you manage to find him, will that "Vapourisation" happen again sometime? Some guys are like that, we have to live with that. Did you sleep with him?
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SLEE
19 yrs ago
Thanks very much for all of your point of views...the fact is yes , i did slept with him, but if wht he wants is just sex, he should not call me after i back to HK. He can just got disappear right after i left.I am sure he did not have any accident , he was just hidden from me.I should say , He is a great liar ! really great one!!!!I really want to forget about him ,but how?
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SLEE
19 yrs ago
KNOWWAY! Please dun be silly!
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lulu
19 yrs ago
SLEE, there are many people are like that around the world. You are not the only one. I met so many jerks like that too, time heals and only you can help yourself.
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He just dump you. I admit it's the coward's way of doing it, but alot of us men are cowards. And yes, I'm sure that he just dumped you.
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Slee,
Move on.
It was fun while it lasted, and the sex was great (hopefully). No point in moping and pining for him anymore. Like what scutdog1 said, it's the cowardly way out. It's best that you got stumped early on, rather than later when you might have fallen harder.
Learn from this experience and look forward to the next best thing :)
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SLEE
19 yrs ago
Really thankful for all your encouragement.I knew that i should move on ,but i lost my confidence and being suspicious to every men.Wht did happened makes me feel like sex is the only thing in the relationship to Men.I don't think there 's anyone who will be sincere to me......think really netgatively..
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slee, first you've got to get out of that crap and move on. he's not worth it. like what they said, maybe he's found another a more convenient girl to be with, considering that you're far apart. guys can be really lazy sometimes and keeping a long distance relationship is just not their thing. second - cmon.. there must still be guys out there who can be sincere.. dont lose hope.. try and try.... :-)
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bbg21
19 yrs ago
he kept ctc with you coz he liked you and there were no one around after u left. Apparently he found someone new 2 months later and don't even bother to ctc u. just the way to save troubles as most men do.
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SLEE
19 yrs ago
yes...you guys are right ... I realized that he met someone else ...apprantly someone who is staying next to him with a "real" relationship rather than a crappy phone sex!( that sucks!)Wht I should do now is go out and have fun with friends ..meet someone new ... or enjoy my single life although it 's not that enjoyable..sigh!! Tell me guys , Wht do you do when you feel really lonely and bored? Please don't ask me to sleepp with someone in the pub. I am not that kind ...thanks~
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