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Sunny_time
19 yrs ago
Thank you guys for all those comments and feedbacks @_@ Really appreciated !
Love yea !
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Stick to what you firmly believe in.
If I may ask, what do you have against cohabitation?
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That sounds like BS. If you love someone enough to want to spend the rest of your life with them, you'd jump at the chance to live with them, whether or not you're legally acknowledged as a couple.
Too much thinking, too much nonsense.
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Why you are so against cohatitation? You try out the dress before you buy it, you try out the car before you buy it. You can also return them if you find them not fit for you after going home. What if you found he is not fit for life, can you return him? What is that? Divorce? You have nothing to lose. Besides, it 21st century. Who cares about the cohatitation? Are singaporean more traditional than Chinese?
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Well I am happily co-habiting with a baby on the way. The other half has raised the topic of marriage but I firmly refuse to entertain it until the three of us are finally settled as a family and we have got over the initial shock and exhustion of our new arrival. Quite frankly, there are going to be huge changes in our lives and I need to know that we can cope with these first before I consider flouncing down the aisle in a dress. That said, I have no objection to marriage, I have just never been the kind of girl that sits and plans her ideal wedding.
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Tennis Gal - you have hit on a very good point about joint assets. The other half is worried tat should anything happen to him or to me whilst travelling or whatever, we would not necessarily be entitled to the remaining assets. Am wondering if there is a contract or some form of documentation that we can put in place should anything happen.
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Tennis gal - great advice thanks. Actually this is something that has been both our minds and we will be visiting our solicitor next week to discuss options. I did read the article in the SCMP about setting up trust funds for your kids and will be organisinmg that pretty sharpish, as for insurance etc we have already ammended our policies accordingly. I am a permanent resident in HK and am afforded some rights here but he is not. Anyhoo, we will get it sorted. Strangely, I find this more reasurring than waltzing down the aisle.
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Vulvic - Cant advise on HK's parental law. However, under Commonwealth law, you must make sure that the baby's birth certificate bears both parents' name. Although it may still be scrutinised under the estate law, your child has one odd down.
Setting up a trust fund is the best option since marriage may not be in the pipeline and you guys come from different countries. With the advise from your solicitor, do obtain a legal opinion from a lawyer that reads your guy's country law to ensure that the trust stands up to the courts.
Other than that, enjoy motherhood.
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Well the bottom line for me is :
I don't want to try out if both of us are working well.
When I decided to say " YES I DO " it means I BELIEVE AND TRUST THAT ALL THINGS WILL WORK OUT WELL FOR MY MARRIAGE.
To me its a matter of self confident and esteem . I don't need to test or try out the relationship unless I 'm not confident.
Unless , you people are in doubts then i suggest u guys go for cohabitations.
For me I have faith in myself and I am confident with the man I chose to be with for the rest of my life.
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lulu
19 yrs ago
then what was this thread about?
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